Depends on the person a lot. Im not much for small talk either. I text less an less too, in my own case its I just gotten so tired of it. Like I always try to be just nice and helpful really, but dear lord how much drama has come from just texting with people. Or well, how much drama that has been thrown my way anyway, unfairly and pointlessly so too. Basically, my life is more peaceful and better, the less I text. It has just lost all its appeal, so I end up not answering people more and more. While in my case still, I prefer and want to talk to my grilfriend everyday, but tend to just do it verbally, over skype/phone when away. Still kinda write each other on their, but yeah phone wise again. I almost never text anyone anymore.
So yeah I wouldn't be suprised if that can be somewhat the case, that he's just drained and exhausted of that medium sort of. Could always try that instead though maybe, just talk on the phone more? Some people are pretty chill like that, fine with not talking for days, but yeah people are different. I prefer to not go days really, but naturally can happen now and then. Can just tell him either way, that you just miss him and wish could talk more.
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I don't like the words normal and abnormal. I've replaced them with majority and minority. Abnormal implies there's something bad or wrong while if in the minority doesn't mean a person is bad or wrong. For me if I'm in a relationship I make it a point to communicate at least once everyday even if it's just 15 minutes. I think it's a sign of respect. I don't text I call. I'd much rather hear her voice and emotion which is something you don't get with texting. I also think texting is enabling people to use the piss poor excuse that they don't have time when calling someone is so much faster and easier and you can do it while doing other things. Unfortunately I think in this day and age of pussies hiding behind their phones, tablets or whatever people like me are increasingly becoming in the minority. The thing is it's not going to change so you have a decision
To me it's normal, but maybe work is stressing him out? When my boyfriend is depressed or stressed out he won't talk to anyone and I accept that because he does tell after a day or two. As long you don't see any changes when you guys meet, everything will be okay.
He might have lost a little bit of interest from you it seems. I suggest to give him some space. Silence is golden. Let him take his time. Be patient and no worries. Good luck.
It really doesn't seem like he is that interested in you. at all.
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I do think it is normal. It does not mean he's not interested in you - he's quite simply a reserved guy who prefers to talk only when really needed instead of wasting time on small talk.
When I had a girl to talk to, I was delighted, of course, but the "we have to text EVERY day" was what began exhausting me. Some times I just wanted a day to myself.Texting someone every day would be exhausting. I am fine with seeing someone every day but I wouldn't want to text someone every day. I didn't even do that when I was in a long distance relationship for a year.
If this keeps draining you, you have no other choice but to break up with him in order to protect your peace.
I've been in this relationship dynamic and one thing I can tell you is; it was exhausting and I was so sad.
When I brought it up to him that we should probably talk a bit more he said I was stressing him out! well then go fuck yourself.
It kept on going like this for 6 months but then I couldn't take it anymore so I ended itI'm actually the same exact way... but I don't feel it's normal really
Yah some people are just like that, i like to have time to myself and im not into trxting or small talk either, thats just how he is.
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