Ugh he sounds annoying why does it matter if it were ons or not you still did it
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He dont separate love and sex and has never any kind of casual sexual contact. And so he wants someone who also ddont do it. He has no problem with my 3 short term relationships. Only the casual sex is a dealbreaker
Do you not understand what trust is? People have different beliefs about different subjects, who the fuck are you to tell someone what is important and what isn't? You're some spoiled fucking brat who has no idea what a healthy relationship is like.
You're the one getting emotional about this lol not me. You can tell yourself whatever you want but the fact is that your past does matter when it comes to a ton of things, including relationships.
@Maik567 yeah sure because I'm the one attacking someone on the internet for not having the same opinion as me for an situation that doesn't even involve me what so ever with swear words😂😂 rightttt👌
Ah god. Again the past is the past argument. Sorry, but its not only the past and the past always matter. She can separate love and sex which he can't and this means they are incompitable. The past says a lot about a person and so its best to look at ones past to see who they are, especially if you plan on dating them.
@Bigclit From my experience many women believe their truthful about their counts because they change the definition of sex. Like I've been with girls who honestly believes I didn't count cuz we used a condom, cuz she drank alcohol that night, cuz it was only anal, cuz it she wasn't in a relationship, cuz she's a lesbian and I'm a guy, and so on.
Love? Sorry girl but love is not a solution for everything. She lied and broke his trust so it doesn't matter if he loves her or not, she betray him and now she has to take the consequences.
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Honesty is the best policy. Only thing you can do is to learn from this.
There are other dudes out there more compatible with you. Feel sad for a bit and move on.
"my boyfriend"
You mean your ex boyfriend?
Good for you, learning your lesson about lying.
Ugh he sounds annoying why does it matter if it were ons or not you still did it
He dont separate love and sex and has never any kind of casual sexual contact. And so he wants someone who also ddont do it. He has no problem with my 3 short term relationships. Only the casual sex is a dealbreaker
That's pathetic I would had dumped him already
She lied for 8 months... don't know why you're blaming the guy when she was the one who lied...
@AleDeEurope so it's still the same amount of people she slept with who cares if it were ons or real relationships. 6 is 6
Yeah, but she lied, though, that's the bigger issue here.
@AleDeEurope who gives a flying fuck
Who gives a flying fuck about whether you are honest to each other in a relationship?
You're fucked in the head lol.
@Maik567 no you're fucked in the head
Nah it's most definitely you. I'd like to see if you'd still feel the same way about being honest in a relationship if your partner cheated on you.
@Maik567 she didn't cheat you're being overly dramatic just as pathetic as this girl her ex boyfriend lmao
Do you not understand what trust is? People have different beliefs about different subjects, who the fuck are you to tell someone what is important and what isn't? You're some spoiled fucking brat who has no idea what a healthy relationship is like.
@Maik567 hahahahha what the hell are you her ex boyfriend or something? What a heavy emotion for something that doesn't even involve you😂😂
You're the one getting emotional about this lol not me. You can tell yourself whatever you want but the fact is that your past does matter when it comes to a ton of things, including relationships.
@Maik567 yeah sure because I'm the one attacking someone on the internet for not having the same opinion as me for an situation that doesn't even involve me what so ever with swear words😂😂 rightttt👌
Your opinion is that no one should care about honesty in a relationship. And I rightfully called you fucked in the head for that opinion lol.
@Maik567 congratulations you win nothing move along
So now it's some sort of a game to you. You said something stupid and I called you out on it, simple as that. No need to get all butt mad about it.
@Maik567 righttt your reverse psychology won't work on me
I don't think you understand what reverse psychology is, cause there literally hasn't been any in my messages.
@Maik567 you're the one being butt hurt coming to my opinion then turn around and call me butt hurt you're crazy
@AleDeEurope what do you think is he crazy?
I commented to point out how ridiculous you were being and that made you incredibly mad for some reason.
Now you're even looking for approval from other people lol, it's pretty sad.
@Maik567 yeah I'm furious dude Bette watch out
I know its sad just thought he would respond
You could apologize but the relationship most likely is over for good. Just be honest next time
Yeah, i would break up with you too. You're a liar now. How could he ever trust you again?
Ok. You were very wrong for lying to him about something like that.
well thats an honest response. u can just move on. its ok. and u dont need to be embarrassed.
Why should he care its not like ur fucking them now. And the past is the past, aslong as u dont bring it into ur new relationship.
Ah god. Again the past is the past argument. Sorry, but its not only the past and the past always matter. She can separate love and sex which he can't and this means they are incompitable. The past says a lot about a person and so its best to look at ones past to see who they are, especially if you plan on dating them.
@Mark1992 ur answer to ur rant was in the 2nd sentence. People can change and should not always be judged by their past.
the guy gave u a chance to be honest u didn't take it now it come to bite you in the ass
solution : apology
will it work : 20 % success
I can't fault him because I would have done the same. Guys who sleep around is a turn off for me
as you get older you are better off telling the truth
or completely lying
truth is always best thou
its okay
And we all know that a woman's true number is at least 3 times what she admits to.
I don't lie I'm truthful about it
@Bigclit From my experience many women believe their truthful about their counts because they change the definition of sex. Like I've been with girls who honestly believes I didn't count cuz we used a condom, cuz she drank alcohol that night, cuz it was only anal, cuz it she wasn't in a relationship, cuz she's a lesbian and I'm a guy, and so on.
@AaronTupaz lol well theyre are idiots. Anal vaginal and oral counts. I don't need to lie about how many people i slept with
i would've done the exact same thing.
He sounds like a *******
Why? Because he has preferences?
@Mark1992 If he really loved her then he could look past things that she did long before she even met him.
Love? Sorry girl but love is not a solution for everything. She lied and broke his trust so it doesn't matter if he loves her or not, she betray him and now she has to take the consequences.
@Mark1992 God you sound like an awful person to be in a relationship with.
So what is the question?
You're a piece of shit. Leave him alone.
move on thats all you can do
He is an ass.
He sounds like a prude
Or someone who still values sex as sth meaningful.