What to do when your boyfriend makes you feel insecure about your body? (Page 2)

Anonymous · 2017-08-12T09:16:07Z

So last night I (17 years old) was just chilling with my boyfriend (18 years old) on the couch and was watching a movie. We were just cuddlingn and stuff, and he started making these comments that kind of hurt me (but I don't think it was his intention to hurt me though). One example is, I was laying on the couch on my stomach and made the commen that "it looks better in tight jeans", referring to my butt. I always thought that I and my butt looked good in those jeans, but apparently not. The problem is not the jeans though, my butt just looks like that normally which is why it hurt. Another example is that when I was lying on my side my boobs kind of came together and "almost" touched (I have A cup boobs and it is almost impossible for them to touch) and he mentioned that cleavagr looks really good, and that I "wouldnt have to do it, but he would like it if I did it for him" ? What does that even mean lmao, a boob job? A really expensive push up bra that can even push my boobs together? He also said "men naturally always like curves", while I'm basically curveless. These are just a few examples. I have always been very insecure about the fact that I'm not voluptious at all, but always got over it. But when he keeps reminding me of the fact that he even does not like my body, how am I supposed to accept it? Therefore I ask if anyone knows how I can still love my body, even though my boyfriend doesn't. PS: talking about it with him is not an option, already did that with another issue and it did not change his behaviour.

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I think his remakes were pretty harmless

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  Looks like a torture device from the medieval times
  
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  Sorry wrong post
  
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He sounds like a douche

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Find a more appreciative boyfriend.

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