And what do you consider “needing” you? Does it have to mean she literally cannot do something herself? Or that she could do it but it’s difficult for her and much easier if you do it? Guys here have mentioned that feeling needed in a relationship is important to them and I would want my boyfriend to know that he is appreciated and desired, but I don’t want to literally depend on him. If something happened to him or we broke up I should be able to take care of myself and function in my everyday life without him.