Guys, how can your girlfriend make you feel needed?

[thegirlfromthething]

And what do you consider “needing” you? Does it have to mean she literally cannot do something herself? Or that she could do it but it’s difficult for her and much easier if you do it? Guys here have mentioned that feeling needed in a relationship is important to them and I would want my boyfriend to know that he is appreciated and desired, but I don’t want to literally depend on him. If something happened to him or we broke up I should be able to take care of myself and function in my everyday life without him.

[JackSmy]

I think the one posting the needing was talking about being in committed or married relationships, not to someone young.
You should be independent, and confident, and NEVER think you have to rely on a guy, to just live your life!
When you are a couple, it is different, and so easy to lose track of things, and forget!
Personally, I LOVE the 'Old-Fashioned' things, as a gesture of love, respect and adoration! Things like taking her hand, on stairs, when she is wearing heals, so if she stumbles, I will catch her! Opening doors, for her, not because she cannot do it, herself, but a way of showing respect, and caring. Helping her take off her coat, and adjusting the chair, at a nice restaurant. EVERYTHING she can do, but something special, maybe, that he does, to show how much he cares and loves.
When she is offended, or doesn't like things like those, I start thinking we might not understand each other, and maybe she thinks I am being sexist, when not.
Maybe saying "Needing" is not the best word; maybe 'wanting' and 'comforted' are better?

[TemptedTerry]

Feeling needed really means that your life is generally much better with him in it. You wake up feeling that little bit better, and more secure with your man in your life. And it should show in your attitude towards life.

If you are happy when he is around, he will notice on a level and subconsciously feel he had a part in making you happy.

It's subtle little things that we all pick up on.

Also of course, men like to do things for their girl in a practical sense. Like perhaps change their flat tyre etc. Don't get someone else to do that if he is capable ;)

[TremorJay]

No I'm not really like that. I like to feel wanted, and desired by my partner. I don't want her to be dependent. I don't want someone asking me for small favors all the time. Quality time and physical affection is enough.

[Zealashton]

hmmmm
just haveing one make one feel needed
i don;t have none

[bklynbadboy1]

If you have to make him feel needed then you definitely don't need to be with him as a man you should automatically know your worth!

[Thatsamazing]

We don't want to feel needed-- we want to feel wanted.

[Jerre]

Her wanting to fuck me and cumming multiple times on my cock

[Mary18285449]

😈😈

[flashgrandad]

I love to feel needed but I would discuss it with her to see if I can teach her to fulfil her life better.

[Koalamate]

Hand him a jar even if you can open it yourself.

[mrgspoter]

Need with not being needy

[asshole_]

Sex, generally

[asshole_]

Why didn't i get a comment, only a like?