Should I be mad if my boyfriend went to a stripclub? (Page 3)

[Yashvardhan_Malik]

although he was wrong by not telling you about stripclub but it maybe okay to go to stripclub you may also enjoy stripclub take it easy girl take a chillpill

[spaceshuttle]

Letting you know was something he should have done before hand.

[TacosRAwesome]

Personally as long as it's a one time thing I don't really mind too much but I'd rather he tells me.

[Insanyx12]

Lying is wrong and trust is the foundation for a relationship he cracked a piece off you havebthebright to be mad/enraged/furious

[rofutbol]

I don't think you should worry about it. He told you that he went there without feeling apologetic so he's probably used to just going there. Maybe go with him next time?

[Anonymous]

He's right. He doesn't need your permission. And he's hiding it from you because you're acting immature about it and he probably knew you would. He is more likely to be honest about it if he knew you wouldn't make an issue of it.

[Asker]

He would have acted the same way as I did. Plus I have some trust issues (which I did talk to him about) and still went on ignoring about how I would feel. That there is being immature and selfish.

[ZettaSlowking]

You have every right to be upset with him. If he had told you beforehand, I could see it as acceptable, but to hide it is really lame.

[reixun]

Go to a male strip club too, see how he feels

[VelvetBlackSoul]

I'd be pissed. He lied. He should make sure you're okay with it

[thisguy24]

Ask permission, really...

[Asker]

He said that, however I would have prefered if he asked me how I would feel about that instead

[thisguy24]

So your getting mad because your boyfriend had a guys night out , starting at the bar and then went to a strip club. Just think about what your saying. It's just a strip club, he didn't sleep with any of the dancers. He went to watch entertainment that's it. Who cares if you think his friends cheat, does he or do you think he does? But to ask permission no , not at all. Even if you said no, with a straight face, he is an adult, s man, and hanging out with his boys

[Asker]

I did not ask him to ask me for permission. Never will. But this is an issue especially because he did not even think of mentioning it earlier. Kinda felt like he was trying to hide it... Guess that why i was so pissed...

[thisguy24]

Did he know he was going to a strip club in the afternoon time or when he told you he was going out with his buddies. Or was it just a last minute thing

[Asker]

He told me he was going to the bar. Asked me if I wanted to come. Told him no and told him to call me later when he would be done so we could sleep together. He went to the bar but then the guys decided to go to the stripclub. He never told me that untill to days later when I asked him why his friend owned him 40$ out of curiosity...

[thisguy24]

Well there you go. Went to the bar, drank, probably got bored , his friend had a great idea and they went to the strip club. So it's ridiculous just to call you if plans change and ask for permission to go or to see how you feel about it. Because even if he did call you to see if your "okay with it" and you probably would say no, then he would have to turn to his buddies and say my girlfriend doesn't want me to go to a strip club, sounds pretty childish on your part, not his

[Halucinator]

Your anger is reasonable

[hellacray]

Yes you should be mad.

[JoyGirl]

It is normal for you to be upset.

[Jackblue]

What he did was unacceptable.

[JenDB]

Burn his XBOX

[Anonymous]

I would dump you on the spot for that

[Asker]

knowing that him to would be mad too if I went to a guy stripclub?

[Opinion Owner]

If I was dating you I would trust you enough so I wouldn't care if you did

[Asker]

Well I did trust him 100% till I heard even his close friends were the type to cheat on their girlfriends... And he went with them. I heard the way they talk about it and it really makes me unconfortable... isn't it a little bit worrying that he has that type of friends?

[Opinion Owner]

People arnt there friend if we where I would be on death row with the rest of them

[novacore05]

yeah, like you got your rights to your own freedom

[Anonymous]

i would even break up

[DesiBeautyLover]

I would be yeah

[Anonymous]

I would be mad.