in my opinion, no one would be that busy not having that 5 seconds to reply to a simple and reasonable text. As you said, he got time browsing his facebook etc. If I were you, I would just send him the one last text simply checking in, saying "Hey, we hvnt been talking for days, is everything going okay at least? " . I do say send a text coz obviously it bugs you so you are here asking. Its gonna be your "regret-proof" text to reassure yourself.
No one knows why he is doing that. Eithering cheating, or just lost interest. Or he is overwhelmed by work and school, whatever it is. You are the one who make decision. For me, I would let it go and move on, if the guy Im dating with wouldn't communicate with me in a proper way, it doesn't worth a long term relationship in my opinion.
Good luck ;)
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I would say nothing. If someone cares they will reach out or respond
First do not jump to conclusions as you stated he is very busy with a lot of things and really does not have the time to spend more time with you as it could be as simple as that however on the other side of the coin where he could be giving you the biggest bullshit story of your entire life and if that is the actual case every time he tells you he is very busy he could possibly out getting loaded and laid, getting his helmet polished all over town from different women and other sexual activities. If you guys have a good communication level between you sit down with him and put your cards on the table how you really feel and see what he says and if he really loves you he will tell you the truth...
People are different in many ways. Some are very independent and can be in a loyal relationship without hearing from eachother for a week at times. But it really depends on the person. I don't think this is an question which can be properly answered. Though if he doesn't respond when he had the opportunity, he could have lost interest or he could just be the type of person who likes to wait until he's got a good amount of time to properly respond.
I do have my personal opinions on this but I prefer to keep those to my self, it wouldn't be right for me to give a decision making answer
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Why don't you try something different, like maybe calling him. Like, do you know if he's even alive? And when you call him, ask him about the stuff that he said he is busy with, school. You can also infer a lot from the tone of his voice.
Hmm what do you mean with seeing? Are you like friends hanging out or are you romantically interested on him? If maybe he is into you but he notices you are not that much interested he may be just going somewhere else... or he has noticed you are into him but he is not that into you so he is going away from you, that or he is actually busy but, come on, 1 min to say: Hey! Im sorry, Im still pretty busy but i will be free soon, hope you are fine!, Or... he is following one of those internet advices to make the girl you want miss you by stop contacting you that much (which seems that have worked on you lol) or he found another girl... and what about social networks has he been active since he didn't reply you?
If your last contact was about school work, inquire about that. It'll at least show interest in what he's going through.
''I text him Monday afternoon and he hasn’t replied''
''I was thinking of sending him a text...''
That is how most people think, and it's exactly where most people go wrong. The guy has not replied for whatever reason so the balls in his court. If you don't hear from him in a reasonable time, and nothing happened then it's safe to assume he's no longer interested.
Think about the definition of insanity and apply it to texting and relationships in general...Think about a subject you wanna discuss, maybe plans for the weekend or something else fun. Most people won't be irritated even when they have no time, to discuss something fun/ or tell you that they're busy. If you go with the why haven't i heard from you?, or what have you been up too. It can be more annoying.
Just text him if u feel like it... if u don't feel like it then don't. Don't over think it and don't stress over it. if u want him.. try to get him back.. but it looks like he's distracted by something or someone... if my girl did that I can't really look at her as my girl no more. Of course u could always move on
I am sure he has time to look at his phone to Facebook or surf the net. Even before bed he could. If he felt the same way you do, he would make time.
Just give him a space... and concentrate on yourself for a while... what you are having in your mind if it meant to be it'll happen... soo go and live this moment take care
You have the right to be concern. If he hasn't replied for a while. Then it must mean he's either sick, something came up, he's more busy than ever, he's spending time with friends, it could be anything
Don't be clingy. Especially when you're dealing with men in school. We will get back to you when we can. In the meantime, go out, do things, get a life, basically
Move over , like he did... or wait to sure about that :)
I will go to the house of the person and see what is wrong with the person
nothing, he got bored and you went through all this effort to base your choice on a stranger's guess. ask him.
Who knows? Sounds strange. Ask him
Maybe start with "hey! Its been a long time"
Wait for him to contact you
Just call or leave him alone
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