Do women want a gentleman or a white knight?

[Anonymous]

Its not unsual to hear a woman saying she wants a gentleman, a man who makes her feel sepcial, appreciates her and makes her feel like a female in his presence, basically like men used to be in the past... except that men in the past didn't do any of this for free, they never cooked, cleaned or taken care of the kids, that was the wife's job, sure he was a gentlemen but he never actually worked around the house or done anything that women demand men do today... yet women still adore such men.

the men today (a lot ) are white knighting so hard is funny, they are racing to cook, clean and have feminine hobbies to please women, they replaced being a gentleman with being an "equal" (more of p*ssy whipped that equal really) and despite women saying this is what they want, they are still very unsatisfied and demand men become gentlemen.

I ain't a genius , but it seems that women either want someone to worship them and give them everything they want no matter how unfair it is... or they want a real man, not the cooking, cleaning kind of man, but a real man a man that treats them real women and doesn't try pleasing them in the kitchen... its one of two really there is no other option, you can't be both you either one of the other.

Gentleman

White knight

[Unit1]

"the men today (a lot ) are white knighting so hard is funny, they are racing to cook, clean and have feminine hobbies to please women, they replaced being a gentleman with being an "equal" (more of p*ssy whipped that equal really)"

You just described me.
I don't see anything wrong with these:
- Cooking isn't female oriented. I cook and I cook good! Plenty of talented cooks are men. Cooking is actually a survival life skill.
- Cleaning - Same as above. If you like to live in a barn like a pig, then go ahead. I'll maintain my space tidy and clean.
- Nothing wrong with having a sense for fashion. I know I want to look cool. Something like this:

https://i.imgur.com/N6D1YJC.jpg

- Treating women as equal is literally having respect for them as much as you yourself have. Treat others like you want to be treated. I want to be treated as an equal and so I treat women not any less than as equals.

Yep. I'm a white paladin.

If Scheiße like this keeps flowing around, then we will not even know what the definition of a White Knight is. How degrading.

[Poppykate]

You have excellent points!

[Unit1]

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[Poppykate]

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[Unit1]

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[Asker]

and this is why the girl you're dating will sleep with me on the side and you can do nothing about it, you're not the first one either i met plenty of men like you , and the result is always the same, all of their gfs cheat in the end.

[Poppykate]

@Asker BE KIND!

[Unit1]

Someone is trying too hard to be an alpha anon online. Or is bored and wants to get some reaction out.

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Nothing else to see here. I'm out.

[Poppykate]

@Unit1 LMAO 😂

[Wraithguy]

I can actually good. I always preferred to cook with my significant other's.
Your idea of "white knighting" is a concept of "one upping" and shouldn't be classified the same.
A woman wants to be respected and appreciated, same as a man.
I cook I clean if that makes me a pussy whipped loser so be it. My role as a man is to provide for who ever is my lady. If that requires me having to cook clean or do laundry so be it.
Sometimes a woman would like to come home to nothing but relaxation.
Push your pride and be a halfway decent human being.

[Wraithguy]

Can cook*

[Asker]

and for that reason your woman will get her sex at work and come back to relax at home and eat a hot meal... but guess what you won't be the one she's fucking

[Wraithguy]

That's fine too. The universe will sort out people like you and potentially people like you assume she would be.
I dont loose any sleep over people with no heart or passion. I'll acknowledge and move on.
I'll never change being who I am as i grew up with a shitty family and refuse to be anything like them.

And i know your just trying to ruffle feathers here because your scared of someone getting too close to you. And that's an issue you have to deal with.

Take care and I hope you find some sort of peace in your life.

[Asker]

Peace? the only way you can find true peace is if you move thousands of miles away to an isolated island where you live alone, in the real world there is not such thing as a true peace, other men will always compete with you, the government will always want something from you, your woman will not like you just because you cook for her and act like her maid.

in america the divorce rate is 50% in portugal and belgium its close to 70% !! yet the west refuses to wake up, women are destorying mens lives and taking everything, they are choosing men like you to support them while they sleep around with another guy they deem as hot and manly, and when they're caught they file for divorce, you really think you're the first one to adapt that approach to life and relationships? you're not. and it never works, a man that feels like a man and won't cook is better that a pussy who can cook and clean.

[Wraithguy]

If you think im a pussy thats your shirt sighted opinion. I can assure you im no push over.
I genuinely want the best for people. I'm not competitive unless its racing cars. And always want the best for people reguardless of gender or orientation.

And there are ways to test a woman's loyalty unknowingly to her and prenuptial agreements are a thing if you worry about your assets being taken.

[Asker]

never said you were a bad person, what iam saying is that (judging from what you're saying) you are not giving women what they want, ask any woman and her answer will be " i like gentlemen, the older generation had this thing that modern men dont have" , you know what they had? you know what my dad, yours, my uncles, and every guy that is age had that men dont have today? they appreciated women, they defended women, they did their part as the men and made a living no matter how hard it was (Not all of course, lazy fucks have always existed), and on the other hand they made women feel like women, they didn't cook, clean , they never even expressed such interests to begin with, the roles were rather clear and women felt like women !! and they absolutly liked it !

even to this day, hot chicks and women that can get away with being housewives will do it without thinking.

[Asker]

Iam not a mean guy, iam quite nice and i do have plenty of friends and women like me as well, but on ther other hand iam very firm and assertive when it comes to dating, i will not settle for anything less than my standard and if a woman tries using me/hurting me she can expect to be cut out of my life , being nice doesn't equal being a doormat in a relationship you can be both, and you'd be amazed how many women liked me even more for being an ass sometimes.

[Wraithguy]

My kid sister is an engineer at boeing.
She also rally races and couldn't cook to save her life. There are exceptions to every rule

[Asker]

yes and thats cool, she made that choice and she may find a man to cook for her , but judging from her job and hobbies she will at some point find herself another man that feels like a man...
after all its her life and she she choose what she wants to do with her life, but i can do too and iam not planning on cooking.

[Wraithguy]

Lol you're just a misreble person aren't you?
Like i said i hope you find some peace in your life.

[Asker]

you're calling me miserable? okay fair enough thats your opinion my friend, let me tell you a little about my life, iam almost 23, broke af, college student and i have no place or car, needless to say iam far from the kind of man women want.
despite that i have managed to go out with at least 10+ women (keep in mind i am broke so i never had the money to even date), 2 of them even paid for me twice, i had a girlfriend whom i never made much an effort to get but i was nice to her and didn't attempt to hurt her, i did make a serious effort to hurt another chick (mentally) and guess what she started loving me even more !! even two years later i still get messages from her sometimes, I literally dont care much about pleasing women around me , cooking or cleaning for them but they are still attracted to me! , you are 34 and without telling me i know that you never had even half the experienced i had with women.

[Wraithguy]

Your correct I never prey upon the weak

[Asker]

my guess is , you never actually talked to women before

[Wraithguy]

Correct im actually an 8 year old giraffe that spends my days playing bottle flip and synchronized fidget spinners.
If you are getting so much sex why ate you bitching about how men are doing things you deem a "woman's job"? doesn't that just mean more pussy for You?
Someone needs to get off his high horse.

[Wishfire17]

I prefer a gentleman. I don't mind cooking and cleaning and doing all those things. Frankly I'm good at it. Im not saying I'm not equal, because I am, the fact that we would each play a role makes me just as valuable as the man. You rely on each other and that's what makes you equal, each having a say in what happens in life, makes you equal. I cannot change a tire, I'm not able to lift heavy things and I do not take out the trash. But I can make a man cry with delight at my lasagna. He changes my tire and I will make him a lasagna. I don't feel at all bad for being a lady. I'm feminine and I own it.

[MyGenderIsAlien]

Whoever made this post is ignorant. Women were not subservient in every culture in the past! Viking and egyptian women for example probably had more respect than American women today do. For example: "pussy whipped" I wouldn't whip you if you paid me too. I dont want to train you like the dog you are. You should just get hobbies because you're an otherwise distasteful person.

[Hurlyburly]

I do not see a "traditional" man who thinks that cooking and cleaning would be a womans job only as a gentleman. I see him an arrogant jerk who's stuck somewhere in the last century.
I do not expect my partner to do all the housework, but to share it since I'm not staying at home all day long like women used to do in the last century.

[Asker]

Thats how gentlemen are, look around you , when was the last time a hot, great guy with good qualities and nice job ever cared about cooking or cleaning? such guys simply dont, they care about being the man and treating you like their woman, the moment a guy starts cooking and cleaning he loses any respect women had for him, and it happens a lot.

[Hurlyburly]

If you say so. I'll pass. I prefer my boyfriend who see's me as an equal partner over one of these "gentlemans" at any time.

[Asker]

you want a bitch, but dont cry when that bitch can't even make you feel like a woman... actually you will probably cheat on him anyways with a manly man

[Hurlyburly]

No, I do not want a bitch, I want a man. Apparently you are the one who doesn't have any idea how a man is supposed to be. Get your head out of your ass, little boy.

[Astoriana]

I don’t want children, which means that I want someone who will help with housework, cooking and cleaning.

[Asker]

you want a bitch, fair enough

[VeganLiberalThe1st]

Op has a chance then

[Astoriana]

@VeganLiberalThe1st he is incredibly unpleasant, isn’t he?

[Asker]

Vegan and liberal, basically a bitch, its in the name really

[Astoriana]

Asker, you’re the one who thinks that a “real man” is as helpless as a child. How anyone could find that attractive is beyond me.

[Asker]

helpless? he can kick your ass , thats how helpless he is

[Astoriana]

Unless it’s a competition in being a self-sufficient adult. Then he would lose, badly.

[Asker]

self suffiecent? lol women are afraid of bugs , without men women are nothing, even the rights women have today are a product of men, if a switch flips in mens brain and they decide they dont like giving women rights anymore, you're fucked , literally

[Astoriana]

If you can’t cook or clean up after yourself, you’re a little baby. No threat of violence will change that.

Afraid of bugs? Have you ever met a woman? Clearly not, given that you can only use stereotypes to talk about them.

[Asker]

you're dumbass is on another level, no wonder men dont take you seriously

[Astoriana]

Sorry, were you trying to say something? It just came out as crying and whining like a baby.

[Onlythisone]

I just wanted someone that wouldn't use me. People are selfish and even if they have a good deal they will always try to get more.

[Asker]

Many do and i have met a lot of such people, iam honest but rarely girls are honest with me, the problem people have today (in my opinion) is that they are not honest and lie a lot, men act like doormats and become thier gfs bitch, while women on the other hand have all these weird standards and tell men what they want (we all know thats not what they really want) .. in the past the roles were clear and people were far more honest, they were confident in what they had to offer and didn't try hiding it... these days though , its all about lying

[Onlythisone]

Pics or it didn't happen

[kaskas19]

Not sure. But whatever you are is definitley something I don't want.

[GirlOfApathy25]

I want a hard working Hunter/lumber man. That is sweet to everyone but mean to bad people.

[Browneye57]

Always be THE MAN. Don't be a girlie-man even if that's what she says she wants. They don't really understand WHAT they want - it's just all about the FEELZ.

[jacquesvol]

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[jacquesvol]

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[Volvagia]

neither. A gentlemen is nice but I'm not exactly a lady lol so I don't expect it

[Patrickjv]

Ya know it's beneficial for yourself that you can cook? Unless you like eating frozen pizza every day.

[Asker]

not when you're married

[Patrickjv]

Are you gonna get married straight after you move out of your parents' house? Lel who am I kidding, you're never moving out.

[Asker]

finalnd huh? my bad i didn't see that , so how is going there? i heard the muslims are fucking your girls left and right, in 10 years you won't have any girls left lol

[Patrickjv]

Ehh? Not much fucking but kinda cringy that you brought something like that up.

[Asker]

cringy? why cause its a fact

[Patrickjv]

Not really. Demographics are 95% native. Lel I think you got some insecurities. I wonder if you're a muslim yourself. Certainly this post makes you seem like one since you share their savagery and illiteracy.

[Asker]

iam not, but i know enough muslims to know that your women are far more likely to fuck a muslim man than a white knight like yourself, they will in 90% of the cases sleep with a muslim instead of their own guys that they've known for years , for a simple fact MUSLIM MEN ARE MEN !! they aren't pussy, violent? yes , illiterate? yes, ignorant indeed , but their manliness attract women, they may not agree to marry to be long term with a muslim , but cheating and hook ups? they are more than happy being cum rags for these men

[Patrickjv]

If by men you mean unemployed and living on welfare then sure. And I'm pretty sure you're a muslim with some power fantasies

[Asker]

doesn't even matter what they do for a living, the fact they are not pussies is enough for most women to bang them , also judging from your answers you're also bitter and probably hate muslims, i have told you twice iam not one yet you want to make me one by force because i have opposing views and i am telling the truth, you have been burned in the past by muslims haven't you? the girls you wanted never actually chose you and now you're channeling all that negativity through your posts

[Patrickjv]

The amount of irony here is unbearable.

[Asker]

Irony? you really find what iam saying ironic? instead of being the kind of man women want you're becoming women !! you are losing your women to eastern men who are as you put " violent, uneducated and ignorant" , these same men that marry 4 women, refuse to cook, clean and aren't easy to tame are the same men that your women want... you know what forget muslims, just observe your macho classmate, or that guy who think is an asshole (He's not) for not cooking, cleaning or giving women the time of the day that you do... just watch how many girls are more than happy being around him, something you will never have.

Being a pussy does not work with girls, you dont have to be a trouble maker, third world maniac, but you have to be a man, and a man leads his woman , women dont date men beneath them, women upgrade and unless you show more value than her you are useless, cleaning and cooking doesn't make you a man to women ,

[Patrickjv]

Cool story, blog it. Bet you got lots of punani.

[Anonymous]

We just want a loyal man, that treats us with respect, but fucks our brains out!!

[Asker]

well, that is doable but that kind of man will not be interested in cleaning , cooking or playing house like most nerds are, if a man is hot, and can please you and treat you like a woman he will act like a man and won't really be into feminine stuff

[Opinion Owner]

This man sounds like an asshole. I think I'd rather steer clear.

[Asker]

this is the kind of man women want to have, and you're not different

[Opinion Owner]

You've no idea the type of woman I am.

[Asker]

I dont need to and i really dont care, i know what women want and what makes them want a guy thats all there is to it really, what kind of woman you are is irrelevant

[Opinion Owner]

Then I suggest not being smug & arrogant, because most of us women, don't like that.

[Anonymous]

What if I told you... we just want kind & funny men?
Jesus, it's not that deep, there aren't only two categories of men.

[idiotmanchild]

Gentleman. White knights are doormats.

[dwiller943]

What's the difference?

[Bliss-taylor]

Gentleman.

[dandiecandie]

We want a hero.

[Nora_Sutherlin]

Gentleman