My boyfriend's ex girlfriend is gorgeous and I feel so jealous. Please help! Any advice on getting past this insecurity? (Page 2)

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I stupidly looked up my boyfriend's ex on facebook. She is drop dead gorgeous. Perfectly gorgeous face and perfect body. I really regret doing this because now I can't stop thinking about it. I can't stop thinking that her body turned him on more, that he thinks her face was prettier. To make it worse, they dated for almost 3 years and she was the one who left him because of college distractions!!! I find myself to be quite average. Average face and a not very good body. I have fat on my stomach and fat arms and my body literally does not compare to hers. Now my boyfriend and I have been together for a few months , and we are both very happy and in love. He says he has never felt the way he feels about me before, that all past relationships don't compare, and how he has loved girls in the past, but he hasn't been in true love before he met me. He calls me beautiful all the time, but I just for some reason cannot shake this insecure feeling. I just need advice on how to personally move past this. There's really nothing he can say that will help, because he calls me beautiful and sexy and says he wants to be with me forever all the time. And I dont want him to know that I looked her up on facebook because that's so weird. I really regret doing it !! It is just such an awful feeling, she is so so pretty and ahh!! Its awful! Please give me some advice lol.

rjroy3 · Answer

How is having that insecurity a problem?

GinaTina · Answer

You Just have to get over it

Eden0202 · Answer

Did you even hit puberty?

My boyfriend's ex girlfriend is gorgeous and I feel so jealous. Please help! Any advice on getting past this insecurity? (Page 2)

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