I told him his penis was small?

[Anonymous]

Ok so I've been seeing this guy for a while now almost a year. He told me before that he always thought he had a small penis (he had been drinking, in fact i dont know if he remembers telling me that) but he's not small he's like 6.5 in. I've been told never tell a guy he has a small penis. We got into a fight and i did. I told him he was "itty bitty" just cause i needed to hurt his feelings like he did mine, and i knew that would. But i dont really think he is, the sex has been great, he even hurts me when we do it sometimes. But.. He won't let me see him naked, and he keeps talking about penis enhancement. I dont want it any bigger, i love his penis and also i love my cooch and dont want to be gutted. How can i convience him he's not tiny and that he's perfect for me? I screwed up didn't i?

[BlueDream]

Your comment made him insecure about himself. If you told him that because he said something about your body too then call it even. But if he hurt your feelings a different way and you felt the need to bring up his penis size in the argument, that wasn't necessary and no matter how pissed you are you shouldn't bring your partner's insecurities into an argument. He told you that in confidence and you basically used it against him. Next time you have an argument take a breather before you say something you'll regret.

[MrOracle]

You went nuclear - and now the entire planet is uninhabitable.

You might as well break up with him now - there's no way to fix this. In fact, you essentially ended your relationship the minute you said that. He'd have been more likely to forgive you for coming home on his birthday and finding his best friend banging you on your birthday cake while all his friends watched than for that.

When people told you NEVER to say that, they weren't bullshitting.

[Boter]

When we get angry we tend to say things that we don't mean. Unfortunately the only real way to solve your issue is to be open with him. I suggest just telling him what you told us. Tell him that you didn't mean it and the reason you told him that was to upset him because he upset you and that you're very sorry.

[Harry_Backside]

You played on the most insecure issue a man can have. I know I wouldn’t want to talk to you for a while & discontinue the relationship. No matter what you do, you can’t take the words back. He’s always going to think in the back of his head “Is she satisfied?”, “Is she seeing someone else that’s bigger?”, & who knows what else.

That’s why it’s always better to chill out before talking about something someone did. It’s easy to go tit for tat with someone. It’s too easy to aim to hurt someone’s feelings just for a temporary moment of satisfaction (assuming you care for the person). If they say something that pissed you off; be the bigger person, cool off, & talk to them later. Show the maturity & if they can’t then it’s time to find someone that will.

[Billlewis]

If he already knew that he has a small dick, I can't imagine how he could be upset with you for telling him he has one. I think you should very sincerely tell him that you think he's wonderful, and that his little tiny dicklet doesn't bother you at all.

[Buckzor]

Tell him whaty you told us, you were trying to get back at him but you know he's not small, and that you don't think he is at all. Justifying why you said what you did will help in my opinion.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, you screwed up big time. You won't recover from that one.

[youknowwhob]

Just tell him you said it in the heat of the moment and tell him how you really feel.

[JHAYES317]

Next time maybe think about what you say. Your actions have consequences.

[reptocarl]

Yes you did and I’d have dumped you on the spot

[Anonymous]

He might as well call you an elephant, would you recover from that? You done fucked up girl

[RoastedCharms]

Yepp

[Anonymous]

Scream loud when ur having sex

[TheBaard]

Maybe a joke or not

[jonysins]

How many cm?