Can two submissive people have a good relationship? (Page 2)

Question

My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for 6 mths. It seems he’s not very dominant. Prefers me to give him the green light. It’s usually me that makes the moves. However i don’t really enjoy that role and have done it in order for us to have a sex life. He says he likes me being dominant. im beginning to wonder if we are a awkward match. He’s not very adventurous either. is it possible for two similar people to have a good relationship or should I reconsider? He says he likes me but at this point we aren’t that invested yet.

A-man-22 · Answer

It's difficult, every relationship needs a leader but it can work if you share dominance so that no one feels totally in control.

joker_daddy · Answer

It will only be a matter of time before you want a dominate man and leave him for that its the same as to dominate people trying to be together it only works for so long

kaskas19 · Answer

Nobody needs to be dom or sub. You can have a normal, healthy relationship.

johnmichaei · Answer

Yes you can but watch out there's a bunch of haters on here because you are submissive and you use that word

Anonymous · Answer

I don't think it would work well in the long run- especially if you grow to resent your role in the relationship.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

It can work but there needs to be a balance with who initiates.

MindTime · Answer

Unless he's willing to try being dominant and likes it, I think it will be difficult

YinLong · Answer

Sure they can issue is that they may want the other to take control at times but overall they should be fine.

HereIbe · Answer

There is a difference between being mellow and needing to be led by the nose. He wants to be led by the nose.

Demised · Answer

I think not. Some guys may like it but a lot of girls actually hate the idea.

Anonymous · Answer

Nah, if you don't become dominant, the relationship probably won't last long.

Anonymous · Answer

You will not be happy until a guy puts a collar on you and tells you when to talk. That's the level of dominance you are missing

dontgofalling · Answer

In a relationship where only one is dominant you need to be dominant sometimes and so does he

allen246 · Answer

I need some drop some donuts and get busy and take matters

woooooooo · Answer

They might have a hard time deciding what to agree on if no one just goes along.

suave711 · Answer

no two of the same won't work. one needs to be in control to be true.

6ftallady · Answer

I don’t think so You needs a yin and yang balance plus nothing get done.

jeffbb26 · Answer

Yes, if the third partner keeps those bitches in line.

Anonymous · Answer

yes but make it equally he dominant for an hour then you dominant for another hour

Kayla45 · Answer

No, you need a sub and a dom.

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