HELP!!! I DONT want to tell boyfriend about BOOB JOB?

[Megan100]

boyfriend of 1.5 years. He's 20 years older than me. We haven't had sex bc of my insecurity with my boobs (he doesn't know this). I am a 32 B. I usually wear a push up bra or a push up bra with tissues... sigh*. Everytime he wants to kiss there, I always stop him or slightly push him away with a smile. I am planning on getting a BA a few wks from now but i don't want to tell my boyfriend bc i'm embarrassed and he kinda doesn't agree with plastic surgery. I know if I keep this from him, he'll get hurt & if he finds out he'll say
"YOU LIED TO ME!!! YOU DIDN'T TELL ME YOU WERE GOING TO GET THIS SURGERY DONE" -_- I am not even sharing this with my friends or family, except my mother... its hard to say the truth... and no im not getting a BA done bc of him, I've always wanted to get this done. GUYS please HELP!!! What do I say to my bf? What excuse do I give him after post-op when I "can't go out dancing bc im not feeling well"

[saltwater84]

Tbh if you guys have been dating for that long he knows you are flat. guys knows push up to real big boobs , they have trained eyes. especially yours is older , he knows the deal. Even girls we know lol
Also he will notice the BA
Also his comment on back up singer were simple : in a world were breast is advertised everywhere why would this very public guy choose different,?
That , was the real question
Also guys loves every blond , they just love boobs. small big medium. They love the tits. more than any size
Some love the huge blobs and only huge. those generally won't mind Ba they want big like big car big watch

Do it if you'd like , but my gf's greatly regrets all now

[Megan100]

Why do they regret it?

[Dumbbrunette]

A B cup is not even flat chested I am an A cup and I don’t even quite consider that flat... but I mean if u really really wanna do this I’d say just tell him. If he is half decent he’ll at least appreciate your honesty.

[jalla]

Trying to hide it isn't a good idea. How long would it take for it to heal properly so he won't be able to tell? What if it leavs scars? You should talk to him about it

[Anonymous]

Look you're saying you're doing it for your self or something like that but really bigger boobs don't mean anything. everyone can tell you'll have fake boobs, everyone.

You say that it'll make you proportionate? so you want to be top heavy? I would always say if you're going under the knife it should be because you have health issues that need to be fixed. But for athletics, I doesn't seem smart. I am very sure you take your top of now you're just gorgeous. all the best to you.

[MrOracle]

I think you already know what's going to happen, and are hoping we can give you some magic way of avoiding it - but that's not possible.

[Megan100]

Its just too embarrassing to share with him since he's 20 years older than me and has a lot of experience. He also really doesn't agree with putting anything fake on body (which I don't know if he's just saying that so that my feelings won't get "hurt").

[MrOracle]

I'm pretty sure he's like me. Fake boobs are a deal-breaker for me, but small boobs are perfectly fine. I think he's made that pretty clear. But the even worse part is that you are hiding something important from him, and he's going to feel betrayed, and there's a very good chance that he's not going to be able to get past that, which means it's likely to end your relationship.

You're going to have to decide what is more important to you: fake boobs or your relationship with your boyfriend?

[Megan100]

Why is fake boobs a deal breaker? 32B is nothing. I literally look flat. If he would ever see me, hell be wondering "where r the boobs I thought she had some". One day we went to a concert of famous singer. the singer very (famous) had back up dancers. All of them were gorgeous but they were all completely flat. However, they did have killer legs and ass, they were wearing body suits. He made a comment, "Did you see all those dancers how flat they were? I thought the singer would have girls with big boobs".. I honestly don't know what he meant by that comment... but I just don't want him to see me as a flat chested girl who is going for a BA aka " a little help"

[Anonymous]

Well after you get your tits blowed up you won't be be staying with 20 year older boy friend for long, so it is not going to matter any way. Like you said you did not get it for him. My bitch ex-wife 16 years younger than me just got a tummy tuck and left me 4 monthes later. New tits then new younger new dick.

[Marlon_Hernandez]

Even though it's your choice to get them done you should really talk to your boyfriend first
It just makes sense that you do

[Bluedream13]

you already have a man who loves you why do you need a boob job, he won't care you know, he wants your tits as they are

[Megan100]

im not doing it for him. Im doing it for myself

[Bluedream13]

why do you want big tits? They get in the way, all they are good for is pleasing your man. Are you still trying to attract other men besides your bf?

[Megan100]

Not attracting other men. Just trying to look proportionate since my thighs are not big but not skinny either. they are a good size.

[LTrish]

Aww hun, be honest. You deserve to be happy with someone who knows and loves you for you. if he does he will respect your decision.

[Chanel1981]

Best to be honest with him. He's going to know they're fake so it's best to let him know up front

[Anonymous]

I m also 32 B. I dont think there is anything bad about it. If my boyfriend judges me for having a small boob, I dont think he would deserve my respect and love either.

[AynonOMouse]

He may be less attracted to you after.
And if you do lie, he will lose trust too.
All I can say is dishonesty isn't good for a relationship.

[Anonymous]

Well he will notice it anyways. So just tell him before surgery.

[Danielleo]

just take off the tissues

[lacetrimmeddangerr]

Just open up to him