My boyfriend treats me like a slave?

[Anon9797]

I (21F) have been with my boyfriend (22M) for 3 years. I feel as though he becomes more desensitized to my emotions and treats me more and more like a slave. He thinks it's ok because of the fact that I'm female and also because I'm jobless and don't have a car at the moment. He always makes me feel worthless and useless because of those two things (no job and no car).

Whenever we stay in the same household, he never cleans up after himself, he expects me to clean and do everything. He doesn't even put his own dirty dishes in the sink and matter of fact in those 3 years of being with him, I have never once seen him wash dishes. I don't mind doing household chores but he can at least clean up after himself like not leaving dirty dishes or dubbish lying around.

I love him and I want to still be with him but I just don't want to be treated like trash anymore. What should I do?

[howlyz]

You need to build up a normal self esteem, because if you don't respect your self no one will give you respect and you will have even more trouble trough life than just with your boyfriend. Just work on your self, get a hobby, find a job (even temporary), slowly start to living and getting life experience and things should look up. But you need to demand respect for your self and also give the same respect to people who deserve it, just don't be arrogant

[boggboss]

Use the mouth u have and talk to him about it and depending on how answer will show if he cares or not

[Anonymous]

Leave him. Nothing else to do really.

[aa180]

It's odd that you're a female getting treated like a worthless slave and are complaining about it instead of having multiple orgasms from it. You're not normal for a girl.

[jacquesvol]

Just say NO!

[Drumlin2001]

Leave him. He sounds selfish. Find someone who appreciates you

[adolescentswede]

It might improve if you get a job. It would certainly reduce the dependancy and you would have a stronger negotiating position

[HereIbe]

Lay down the law. Then he will verbally abuse you and make you feel like shit. You will swallow it and let him keep doing what he does, because you're a doormat.

[SpunkNugget]

Maybe you should get a job instead of posting on Instagram then.

[seano469]

You need to find someone who will always treat you like a goddess honey

[Poormanscomedian]

He probably is into control.

[Muhammad1999]

Why not leave him?