Why is it socially unacceptable for a woman to be with a man for his money but not for a man to be with a woman for her looks/body? (Page 2)
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In general, our society has created a situation where guys feel the need to go searching for love/sex whilst the girls get to choose.
This is common amongst many animals as Well that's why male birds are the ones with bright colours whilst the females are often brown/dull.
So when a guy sleeps with physically attractive girls it's considered an achievement that not many guys are able to do.
Many girls always have the option to sleep with someone for their money and it's considered an easy/lazy/shallow option.
So then you agree those are double standards
I'm not saying that it's a good thing, but you asked why it's a thing.
I wanted to be like my friend who has found the love of his life when he was 12 and they're always obsessed with each other.
But I haven't been fortunate enough to find my match. So I'm just drifting through reality making sure I'm having a good life.
I'm not saying it's a good thing to have this society the way it is. But it's common in most animals. I don't think its something we can change in our generation
A woman's body is something she is born with , it's a natural gift that only lucky people get. It's apart of her natural self
Whereas money is something that is earned through hardwork and dedication to a career.
Besides in this modern society women are capable of getting job and earning money and yet they still take the lazy route and marry a rich guy
You have to admit that some things that women do are worse than what men do such as cheating , body shaming , and having materialistic attraction ( that is money )
1. First off, with all due respect, who determined it was wrong?
Here is a graph of my thoughts on this.
Good looking women -------> Higher percentage finding wealthy man
(Handsome or not)
Average looking woman ----> Lower percentage finding wealthy man
(Most likely average looking or less)
*A wealthy man can live being wealthy and having a average wife but no wife is better than being rich with an ugly bitch
Wealthy handsome man------> Most likely to date good looking
woman
*Good looking woman higher chance of finding wealthy man
Wealthy average looking man ----> Most likely to date average
looking or good looking woman
Ps if you're offended you're prolly an ugly bitch
Wow women are bat shit crazy. It is wrong, we here it all the time, he is a player a fuckboy he is shallow etc. etc. etc. We here nothing but how any man who doesn't want her for her "mind" is a piece of shit. What kind of make believe fantasy world are you living in? Maybe stop playing victim and look around a little because you are completely out of touch with reality.
Because many people believe that it's right to judge a woman, but it's wrong to judge a man.
Men are free to do anything they want, while women can't do the same things that men do without being judged.
Also, there are men who date/marry women because of their money. But of course, only women are interested in money, right?
Who hurt you? XD
@zeineboyy Seriously? 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
FEMINISTS do the same thing.
But seriously why do you hate men?
@zeineboyy I don't hate men.
Well it sounds like it, men this men that. Both men and women have issues.
Women are treated far greater by society and people ingeneral especially if there attractive but why complain.
@zeineboyy Let's agree to disagree, ok?
I'm complaining because I have reasons to complain.
No I definitely see why you would complain but it's on both sides. i mean as a guy it bothers me how picky women are when dating and how you can say one wrong word and it's over.
@zeineboyy I get you. But women still face more problems than men. Not saying that men don't have problems, but it's harder to be a woman.
Well menina I would never understand a women's struggles because I'm not a women, the same way as you will never understand a man's struggles because your not a man
@zeineboyy That's true. But I know how women have been treated throughout History and how they are treated today.
Yup👍
It isn't socially acceptable for a woman to be with a man for money. With that said, I'm a traditionalist. I believe men should be the bread winners and are the head of the home. Neither situations you described should be acceptable. A woman shouldn't leech off a man and a man should use a woman as a trophy. Partnerships should support each other and better one another.
I wouldn't know.
Women's Beauty is natural, so most women have that already and we are attracted to women as they are.
Our money however isn't. It's no part of our nature. It doesn't grow out of our wallets. But if money is what you (not you but the general you) are attracted to, go right for it. You'll deal with it's consequences.
I think that's the misconception though. No one is actually attracted to money. It's what comes with it that's attractive to women. Women, on a biological level, like to be provided for and taken care of. In most times in nature, you see that in the form of providing protection or maybe food. However, humans are different because we've developed an entire society around money. You can't have food, water, or shelter in civilized societies unless you get it through money. So you are in effect still doing the 'providing' part which is why guys with money are seen as more attractive.
How much money depends on the woman, though. Like me, for example, I have a career and my own money so I expect my partner to bring more to the table than what I already have. But I don't expect him to buy me a mansion or a new lambo. I just want to be stable and know he can take care of us if something happens whereas some women don't even want to have to work ever again in their natural life. But most women would agree that a man that can't provide is unattractive even if he's good looking just like most men won't date a bombshell woman if she has the personality of a potato.
What's with the pink downvotes? I already said, that women are beautiful and that we are attracted to women. I must have offended some bitches or gold diggers.
@Shuri
That makes sense, that it's the power that comes with money would attract women. That's why i adore strong and independent women ❤. They make their own money, so that we don't have any trouble with finances, which i think is best practice in a real relationship. I myself am a strong and independent man.
The less such complications there are, the easier and better the relationship and life overall. It just works.
Both are wrong. Looks and money should be a minor factor in terms of dating because they aren't what make the person. I don't care if it's a man or a woman, but someone who dates only for a person's looks or financial status is just shallow.
I agree. Guys are on here saying a woman is her looks like we don't have brains or a personality
I mean, I personally been given s*** for being attracted to some girls, solely because other women viewed them as bimbos. And I've heard more than one group of girls talk s*** about a man marrying a woman solely for her looks and it's usually revolved around the women not being that pretty, or being pretty and dumb. So I guess you're going to have to define what you mean by socially acceptable here
Do you really need to have an explanation? When a woman is with a man for his money, she will look for any chance that the laws give to them to leave him in a way where she can take advantage of it, but when a man is with a woman for her looks, he won't take any advantage after leaving the relationship.
In the other hand, the man who was unlucky to be with a woman for his money, have lost much more money than almost any other woman has lost for being with a man who is with her for her looks.
I guess because it's internalized mysoginy, whats wrong with a woman that she can't maker her own money unless you think owning a vagina is a physical mental disability.
Also men don't marry for looks, it takes more than looks.
Cry me a river... jesus christ. Do you know how much shit men get when they choose a woman just for her looks? Literally any time you date a girl that is pretty, people assume it's because of her looks that you're dating her.
Stop acting like y'all are the victim all the time when you don't even take time to talk to men about their experiences.
Because your body is a part of you , it's unique. It's shows they love something specific about you.
Anyone can have money, you aren't loving them for who they are, just their worth.
Something everyone can have Vs something unique to each person.
Can you see why it's frowned upon now.
Why would anyman be with a chick that just wants money lol I rather just pay for pussy. Haha.
Once that's. Thing the price goes down for the woman becuase if she won't another will for cheaper with equal looks as the first one.
You might get a old lonely guy who wants to talk but that's about it.
Natural selection?
If a woman wants to be with a guy because he's successful, that makes sense, as he would be a better provider for the family.
If she wants to be with him due to his money, in today's society, that hints at entrapment to gain it by marriage or child-support/alimony.
Men generally want a healthy-looking woman, so she could survive childbirth. A younger woman is desired for this same reason.
I say both are socially unacceptable.
I say it's only acceptable to be with someone because you want to start a family.
It kindof works to be with someone because you like THEM (personality, shared experiences, really the essence of their soul) too, but not really.
Being with someone mostly for their looks or wealth makes you a bad person, regardless of the setup where male/female dynamic falls in that regard.
It's not always about the money it's about the personality but if y'all wanna mess around until y'all get caught good luck ladies and gentlemen especially y'all teenage girls looking for a sugardaddy and teenage boys looking for a sugarmamma keep playing 🎮🤣✌
Men at least like an aspect about the woman herself. Women could care less about who the guy is, it's all about getting at his money which (gasp!) isn't a part of him.
There's a complete difference between being attracted to someone physically and gold digging.
Where do you find it acceptable?
If a man says he is only interested in a female for her looks, he is called every name in the book.
But, If a female wants to be a glorified whore, she can be. So many females inherently go after men simply for their money.
🙄 I highly doubt any real successful marriage is based souly on looks, and if it is, that's just another reason why we have many divorces. Marrying for money or only looks is stupid. Now on the other note nobody ever got with someone that they didn't feel attracted to. 1st attraction, then get to know. Let's be real you not dating someone you think is ugly to YOU.