You have to learn to see yourself through his eyes. It just sounds like you don’t love yourself because of what you did. How can you expect him to love you if you don’t love yourself first?
Hmmm... I could be wrong... Maybe you can't/won't forget cause... You had a good time, you enjoyed it, and don't wanna forget it. There's nothing wrong with that. I cheated on my wife a few years ago, she forgave me. But I can't forget her. I had an amazing time with her. Sure I hate myself. But... What can I do, right?
Just move on, that's the only way. Let him be free, because even if he forgave you, it's always going to be part of any relationship you have with him, and next time? Don't cheat. I have 0 respect for cheaters on either side.
He didn't forgive you. He "forgave" you for fear of loss so he could still be your boyfriend cause like most guys he doesn't know how to get girls and didn't want to be lonely.
Every body has this... but nobody has the dare to accept this and u did... what happened is just happened... leave it and move on from here bcoz u have a wonderful man next to u wo cares u much... so let it go and move on...
Cheating is a MYTH. If my wife loves me unconditionally I can have as many relationships that I want. You're following your heart enjoy your life stop worrying about what others think about you your perfect!
Agreed. My wife and I have reached that point in both time and bond. She can be with whomever, I can be with whomever. If I'm lucky... It can all be done same time lol.
You wanted to explore that's why nobody should be in committed relationships so young. LIVE YOUR LIFE FULL THROTTLE NO REGRETS he's ok u WILL BE GREAT it happened already find something else to stop it..
Hm... After reading some of your responses I have to ask... Did you actually fuck another guy? Because sending some random nudes near the start of a relationship does not constitute cheating.
Well you are wrong. LOL. I understand why your boyfriend doesn't care much about it. Stop being silly and stop sabotaging your relationship for dumb old shit.
Don't feel sorry for yourself. If anything it's the guys fault for not providing you what you expected of the relationship. He should really up his game if he wants to continue with you.
I was in similar situation. I had forgiven her because I was in madly love with her , of course it broke my whole world , but it's ok. I was with her in her mind at difficult times and she did that to me. Sometimes you love someone so much that even they are completely wrong , you still can't think bad for them. But we broke up...
This is a fix. Your fella forgave you and told you to move on etc, but did God forgive you? Are you sorry to him and God? After all, God is the one who designs our hearts -- He can heal and restore the broken.
Lol only if you think God is a spiteful being that looks at worship and perfection as the only way to not live an eternity in the worst possible place.
I don't think someone who created us is going to be a spiteful little child that refuses to accept and understand that life is difficult and blind faith is even more so.
We all have done silly things before. What is important is that now you know your mistake and still love him and thats all that matters. We all have made mistakes. you will be ok
Honestly I think he needs to give you a extremely hard spanking you clearly feel you haven't been properly punished for your actions and this should solve this
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You have to learn to see yourself through his eyes. It just sounds like you don’t love yourself because of what you did. How can you expect him to love you if you don’t love yourself first?
Your boyfriend really deserves better.
I hope you do the right thing, but you and I both know. . .
Hmmm... I could be wrong... Maybe you can't/won't forget cause... You had a good time, you enjoyed it, and don't wanna forget it. There's nothing wrong with that. I cheated on my wife a few years ago, she forgave me. But I can't forget her. I had an amazing time with her. Sure I hate myself. But... What can I do, right?
This guy is an idiot.
He should have dumped you and found a faithful girl.
This is a horror story.
Just move on, that's the only way. Let him be free, because even if he forgave you, it's always going to be part of any relationship you have with him, and next time? Don't cheat. I have 0 respect for cheaters on either side.
He didn't forgive you. He "forgave" you for fear of loss so he could still be your boyfriend cause like most guys he doesn't know how to get girls and didn't want to be lonely.
Every body has this... but nobody has the dare to accept this and u did... what happened is just happened... leave it and move on from here bcoz u have a wonderful man next to u wo cares u much... so let it go and move on...
Cheating is a MYTH. If my wife loves me unconditionally I can have as many relationships that I want. You're following your heart enjoy your life stop worrying about what others think about you your perfect!
Agreed. My wife and I have reached that point in both time and bond. She can be with whomever, I can be with whomever. If I'm lucky... It can all be done same time lol.
Oh! I love you unconditionally forever you can cheat on me anytime I will never stop loving you.
Yep, same way I feel. It's a turn on for me. If it happens in front of me, even better. Hard to get her to do it though
You wanted to explore that's why nobody should be in committed relationships so young. LIVE YOUR LIFE FULL THROTTLE NO REGRETS he's ok u WILL BE GREAT it happened already find something else to stop it..
Hm... After reading some of your responses I have to ask... Did you actually fuck another guy? Because sending some random nudes near the start of a relationship does not constitute cheating.
It does constitute as cheating to me! 😫
Well you are wrong. LOL.
I understand why your boyfriend doesn't care much about it. Stop being silly and stop sabotaging your relationship for dumb old shit.
Don't feel sorry for yourself. If anything it's the guys fault for not providing you what you expected of the relationship. He should really up his game if he wants to continue with you.
I hope you’re joking
jesus fucking chrost you stupid bitch
I was in similar situation. I had forgiven her because I was in madly love with her , of course it broke my whole world , but it's ok. I was with her in her mind at difficult times and she did that to me. Sometimes you love someone so much that even they are completely wrong , you still can't think bad for them. But we broke up...
This is a fix. Your fella forgave you and told you to move on etc, but did God forgive you? Are you sorry to him and God? After all, God is the one who designs our hearts -- He can heal and restore the broken.
The only way.
Unless you're not a part of organized religion and then God condemns you to an eternity of the worst fate possible. Lol
@TheKack No, you condemn yourself.
Lol only if you think God is a spiteful being that looks at worship and perfection as the only way to not live an eternity in the worst possible place.
I don't think someone who created us is going to be a spiteful little child that refuses to accept and understand that life is difficult and blind faith is even more so.
That's why He offered a way! Through the Son of Man, Jesus Christ who was sent as a ransom for your sins.
Just move on
And treat him like an absolute bloody king for as long as you are together.
If you made your mind up you won't cheat then stop killing yourself.
He forgave you. Forgive yourself snd move on.
I'm not entirely sure how cheating can be a defense mechanism.
It's nice he forgave you, but it's just one of those things that stick forever. So... All you can do is live with the label.
We all have done silly things before. What is important is that now you know your mistake and still love him and thats all that matters. We all have made mistakes. you will be ok
Honestly I think he needs to give you a extremely hard spanking you clearly feel you haven't been properly punished for your actions and this should solve this
How about letting him fuck another girl while you just sit there and watch.
kyle: I'm guessing you are not a certified marriage counselor. Just a wild guess.
Honestly, I dont really have an answer. Its likely that you'll never forgive yourself, and that it'll tear your relationship apart.