Relationships Would you forgive a cheating that took place many years ago? (Page 2) Anonymous (45 Plus) Follow FacebookTwitterWhatsApp 23 Would you forgive a cheating that took place many years ago? Post Opinion Like Share Follow 5 likes
Walrus_au Follow Yoda Age: 48 +1 y The problem isn't so much the cheating as the breach of trust. 0 0 Reply
Lostbracken Follow Xper 3 Age: 47 +1 y I think I would learn to accept it, I am not sure about forgive. 0 0 Reply
joethemoe912 Follow Xper 5 Age: 28 +1 y No, cheaters will continue to cheat and keep lying. 0 1 Reply RWRECK1 +1 y but I have always been told that eaten ain't cheaten Reply
unyobiz Follow Xper 2 Age: 42 +1 y If you can't forget you never forgave in the first place! 0 0 Reply
the_coolest_guy Follow Xper 2 Age: 35 +1 y Depends upon intensity and end results and effects on me my life. Self respect also important. 0 0 Reply
OddBeMe Follow Master Age: 40 +1 y 2.7K opinions shared on Relationships topic. No. Cheating is the worst transgression in a relationship. Dump him. 0 0 Reply
Anonymous (25-29) +1 y I don't believe that I would be able to forgive the cheating. For me it's a huge break of trust and this is something you can't fix. 0 2 Reply Asker +1 y The cheatin took palve 30 years ago and my mom found out when we were still little it is not a recent thing Reply Opinion Owner +1 y Yes, I know you had written that. Do you want to have contact with your halfsister and her child? Reply
alliwannaknow Follow Xper 2 Age: 35 +1 y Yes bc were just human and after time you can see if they regret it or not... give time b4 you react 0 0 Reply
livingthelife19 Follow Xper 6 Age: 38 , mho 33% +1 y Depends on circumstances and how I found out 0 0 Reply
sweetcocoa_ Follow Xper 6 Age: 28 , mho 33% +1 y No.I can't ever get past something like that. 0 0 Reply
Daniel3035 Follow Yoda Age: 28 +1 y 442 opinions shared on Relationships topic. No never that's the point. 0 0 Reply
Guanfei Follow Master Age: 30 +1 y 1.4K opinions shared on Relationships topic. No. You cheat, you're out, and dead to me. 1 0 Reply
EmbraceThePain Follow Guru Age: 28 , mho 36% +1 y No, never. 0 4 Reply Asker +1 y It happened more than 25 years ago. Reply EmbraceThePain +1 y I don’t care if it happened a century ago Reply EmbraceThePain +1 y Time doesn’t change what happened. Time just lessens the hormonal anger response that you felt during the time it happened. Reply Asker +1 y OkMaybe because I tend to think differently Reply
Nice222 Follow Guru Age: 53 +1 y 718 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Yes I have forgiving cheating. 0 0 Reply
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The problem isn't so much the cheating as the breach of trust.
I think I would learn to accept it, I am not sure about forgive.
No, cheaters will continue to cheat and keep lying.
but I have always been told that eaten ain't cheaten
If you can't forget you never forgave in the first place!
Depends upon intensity and end results and effects on me my life. Self respect also important.
No. Cheating is the worst transgression in a relationship. Dump him.
I don't believe that I would be able to forgive the cheating. For me it's a huge break of trust and this is something you can't fix.
The cheatin took palve 30 years ago and my mom found out when we were still little it is not a recent thing
Yes, I know you had written that. Do you want to have contact with your halfsister and her child?
Yes bc were just human and after time you can see if they regret it or not... give time b4 you react
Depends on circumstances and how I found out
No.
I can't ever get past something like that.
Yes forgive but don't forget
30 years? i think i will..
No never that's the point.
No. You cheat, you're out, and dead to me.
Not a problem depending how Sovier th incident
I would forgive. I wouldn’t get back with them.
No, never.
It happened more than 25 years ago.
I don’t care if it happened a century ago
Time doesn’t change what happened.
Time just lessens the hormonal anger response that you felt during the time it happened.
OkMaybe because I tend to think differently
Nope. NEVER!
Yes I have forgiving cheating.
I have forgiven cheating. A few times