How to accept that a man will never love me and that I should not take them seriously?

[Tiffylove]

So I believe true love is when you see someone flaws and all their vulnerability and insecurities and you still love them. Everytime I show any of them things I mention the guy losses interest gives cold replies then distance himself or the worst uses my inseruties against me so I have learnt not to trust a man or let him in my heart. The issue is I am a hopeless romantic so its really painful for me how do I learn to accept this?

[ragequeen]

It seems that you struggle with insecurity and trust issues. And you've met some bad men! Not all men are like that. But I do respect that you want to protect your feelings, and to be honest, relationships are a lot of drama, stress and potentially heartbreak. Some people just can't deal with it, and that's totally fine. If I were you, I would not think twice about men or dating. Don't accept anything, just keep living your life without thinking too much about it. The right man may or may not show up. The most important thing is that YOU are happy and live the life you want. If you can imagine a man in that equation, wait a while and wait for the magic to happen by itself. If you enjoy your own company for the time being, put all complicated feelings aside. You deserve happiness!!

[Unit1]

You are on a decent path of accomplishing an important step for long term purposes.
Like you I too am romantic and crave cuddles and kisses anytime anywhere from kind and sweet women.
Once you've been burned or wronged by the opposite sex you stop believing in it. Which is a natural reaction and there is nothing wrong with it. You may start thinking "All men are the same" much like we may start thinking "All women are the same". However try not to let this blind you into hatred towards half the human population because that's the risk of running into your own downfall.

Refer to Rick Sanchez here:

https://www.youtube.com/embed/0rWunrNejmA

[Antoineee]

Pffff... Okay you 're just mentally fked up actually and don't think nobody will ever love you, out of 3 billions guys one will love you and could do anything for you, don't be pessimistic bcs you had multiple dickheads as boyfriend. Hope it will happen soon for you

[Tiffylove]

Thanks but I am too broken for love you see, I just want to learn how to enjoy my time with men without getting my heart and feeling involved

[Antoineee]

I do understand what you mean I hope one day you will find the true love just live your life as you want to, and don't have regrets

PS: I sincerely hope you will go better really soon, If you feel bad or have any issue I'm here to talk, have a nice day

[Tiffylove]

Thank you I appreciate you caring xx

[p0p0p0p0]

Don't worry, some one will come and change all of this but until then don't thing of it trust me i have benn through this before

[ohshee]

Wait why would you want to do thst I'm sure there are many men out there thst know you that want to be with you

[madgoat]

Seems rather a defeatist attitude for a 23yo. Maybe you just need to wait for a slightly older and mature age group to find you.

[Oric5]

From your 2 posts it sounds like you pick guys that make you the male role player in the relationship. Pick the uncomfortable fit for once until you find the right uncomfortable

[mrgspoter]

Same here but I just don't care no more I can wait or won't have any lady

[lanadelrey25]

I'm in the same boat gurl

[Anonymous]

Focus more on yourself, stop caring bout him and move on

[Guido59]

Some relationships need to be left behind

[AmeerX]

What kind of flaws are we talking about here?

[Tiffylove]

Many like any other human

[AmeerX]

What are yours I meant. I don't seem to think you have flaws