How do you feel if she kisses you with no emotion?

[Anonymous]

I'm very selective of my partners but I've only been in love once. I find a guy usually that is a fuck boy, we date for a while and end up breaking up. He called me cold because he noticed its purely sexual attraction. I have zero emotions. What would you think of a girl like that? You really think she's "cold" or is she just damaged?

[concrete]

I'm kind of the same way, I have very little to no emotion at all. So for me, it's a trait I'm attracted to

[Asker]

Thank you :) I just find I'm protecting myself.

[concrete]

That's like, totally reasonable haha. I dunno, even if i have no emotion for a person, I can still kiss them/have sex with them and have a lot of passion while doing it

[Asker]

I can do all of that. I have a problem with the passion tho lol need to work on that

[concrete]

It is definitely just something that you can learn to do, my best tip is to just try to get in sync with your partner and vibe on their level, that's always really passionate

[Asker]

Thanks

[concrete]

Sure, if you have any other questions DM me haha

[TeddyGotT]

Not it's definitely damaged

[Asker]

I am. You wouldn't like that would you? Leave her?

[TeddyGotT]

Yeah I would definitely leave her, your guy probably thinks he can change you though

[Asker]

I doubt it lol. I think he's surprised girls can be like that too.

[TeddyGotT]

Maybe, kind of weird he didn't see it coming though but hey... who knows

[Asker]

My thoughts exactly. I think I can be fixed just need someone who doesn't play games.

[TeddyGotT]

To be fair, you're also playing games