Yeah he just needs space to recover from that, i tend to switch off from everyone and try to find peace within myself (it can take a month or two). When someone loses their job, it's not that simple. It usually involves victimisation, bullying harassment, false accusations and leads to sickness etc. To lose a cousin too, ouch.
The one you love most ends up on the receiving end of abuse, so it's best to give him a lot of space, youve said you're there if he needs you. Dont do more, i mean he's upset he got mad at you aswell now. Not your fault. It's nice that you care.
The opposite end of the spectrum is a girl who ditches a guy who is having issues, like wow if you can't be with someone in their bad moments why be with them in their good.
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I didn't lose my job due to covid
But, I did lose my grandpa this year. He's been in bad health for a while now. We don't think it was covid
I can relate to him somehow. Taking out stress and negative emotions on others, only to instantly regret it and be worried about the state of a relationship afterwards. That's something I've experienced a couple of times, and it feels hopeless after saying hurtful things because I feel so guilty. Then I feel hopeless because I am worried I ruined all the good parts of the relationship.
I would say you should tell him that you forgive him, you still want to be with him, and you just want to move on from past hurts. If that is true for you. If he is anything like me, he probably feels so guilty that he is isolating himself.
I think his method of coping is to detach himself from people so he can grieve - you might miss his time but the best thing for him is that you put aside your discontent and give him the freedom he needs to grieve and release his tension - if you don’t do this - the relationship will fracture and might end
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