Very very true! Well said! Prole expect more than they themselves are willing to put into the relationship... And too much one-sided blame when unhappy in the relationship.
Love is a temporary madness, it erupts like volcanoes and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your root was so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being in love, which any fool can do. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident.
Those that truly love have roots that grow towards each other underground, and when all the pretty blossoms have fallen from their branches, they find that they are one tree and not two.
The biggest thing is loyalty, forgiveness and a marriage that lasts forever, keep trying till the end, don't surrunder unless your faith death or cheating... Marriage ain't a game, it's a blessing and it's a sacred unity between a man and woman...
Anyone that really believed that or that's the case for, then that relationship was doomed from the start... It's every day in a relationship that counts, matters... Not one day in the year...
It's crazy on here every day.."He/ she looked at me, what does that mean" "One man/woman burned me, hence they all must be evil"blah blah blah... Could go on, but think you get the point lolol
It’s not a 50/50 effort it’s a 100/100 effort both people you cannot both half ass (give it 50% effort and expect the other person to give 50% effort) it you both must give 100% effort or the relationship fail.
If you find that woman who is truthful, and faithful , please let me know. I’ve been searching for her now for a while. SIDE NOTE: referral fee considered , US Dollars
I'll take that. Just a few minor requirements before the transfer of your first born to me: 1- It has to be a SHE 2- She must be drop-dead gorgeous with a body to die for 3- She must be at least 18 years of age 4- She should be able to Speak English 5- She should NOT be a Harry Potter fan
😂😂 sorry, she had a boyfriend and a 2 year old son lolol she 24 tho and what mama ain't gonna say her baby gorgeous 😂 and my younger daughter bout to be 22 come December. Damn I'm old lol
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Thats it takes work love alone won't do it you really have to work at it
Very very true! Well said! Prole expect more than they themselves are willing to put into the relationship... And too much one-sided blame when unhappy in the relationship.
*people
I love the way you think
Ditto 😊🤗
It requires communication, listening $kills, empathy , sympathy, effort and keeping your word. Also i have my partners back 100
That's awesome 💯
LDR can be tough.
Exactly why I won't do those! Unless in already with the person first, but not too just enter a relationship with someone I never met in person
I married a man once overseas and now in another LDR.. I am cut out fit, I think. hahaha My passport says okay.
Well hope that works out for you
Thanks! I met him here on Gag 2 years ago and trying to get over there but this year is bad. Shooting for next year.
People seem to think they should be happy all the time but that's not life
Right! Exactly! Things go wrong in life you don't bail on life, you work through it. Same should be applied to relationship
Gotta take the rough with the smooth 💯
💯 right there
Have you heard the poem from captain corelli's mandolin?
Love is a temporary madness, it erupts like volcanoes and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your root was so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is.
Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being in love, which any fool can do. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident.
Those that truly love have roots that grow towards each other underground, and when all the pretty blossoms have fallen from their branches, they find that they are one tree and not two.
No I haven't
I love it 😊
Just looked it up and read!! And very true
It really is isn't it 😊
That it takes hard work, it doesn't just "happen" magically.
The biggest thing is loyalty, forgiveness and a marriage that lasts forever, keep trying till the end, don't surrunder unless your faith death or cheating...
Marriage ain't a game, it's a blessing and it's a sacred unity between a man and woman...
is it February 14th already? no, it's winter
That's your answer? 😂 Okay lolol
it looked like such a Valentine's day question =D
What do relationship or relationship failures have to do with Valentine's day?
it's that time of the year that makes or breaks relationships
Anyone that really believed that or that's the case for, then that relationship was doomed from the start... It's every day in a relationship that counts, matters... Not one day in the year...
keep your eye open around 2/14 here. it goes crazy
It's crazy on here every day.."He/ she looked at me, what does that mean" "One man/woman burned me, hence they all must be evil"blah blah blah... Could go on, but think you get the point lolol
that's pretty normal here haha. it's the comments that get crazy
Just cuz it's normal here don't make it normal and not crazy... Crazy is crazy period... Stupid is as stupid does 😂
i see your point
Yeah just saying 🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️
It’s not a 50/50 effort it’s a 100/100 effort both people you cannot both half ass (give it 50% effort and expect the other person to give 50% effort) it you both must give 100% effort or the relationship fail.
That they don't understand the line the line is that you draw in the sand and state what you're willing to accept provide compromise.
They are often very stressful and hard work
Very true... Yet people still expect the perfect fairytale yet that ain't how relationships or real life works
What type of relationship are you referring to?
A Love relationship between two partners, but really all relationships in life have their ups and downs
A romantic loving relationship will need compromises.
I agree, all types of relationships will have ups and downs (unless they're just surface level).
👍👍🙂
To fulfill a girls wants and needs before you even think about yours.
usually by then she’s ready to take care of my needs!
It takes two people pulling in the same direction, both giving 110%...
it takes two to tango
🙂 right lol
Adjusting for each other
Great great point!! True people forget single=me, couple=we
Being truthful and staying faithful
Great answer. And these days, sadly too true
If you find that woman who is truthful, and faithful , please let me know. I’ve been searching for her now for a while.
SIDE NOTE: referral fee considered , US Dollars
Well, I'll get right on that then! Cash only, no checks! 😂
LOL.
Still waiting on that $100 tho 🤔😂😂😂
lol. Please send me your bank account number , routing number, and the name of your first born please
You can have my first born 😂😂😂 just kidding lolol
I'll take that. Just a few minor requirements before the transfer of your first born to me: 1- It has to be a SHE 2- She must be drop-dead gorgeous with a body to die for 3- She must be at least 18 years of age 4- She should be able to Speak English 5- She should NOT be a Harry Potter fan
😂😂 sorry, she had a boyfriend and a 2 year old son lolol she 24 tho and what mama ain't gonna say her baby gorgeous 😂 and my younger daughter bout to be 22 come December. Damn I'm old lol
I just finished reading the fine print of the requirements: It CAN BE your second born as well. Sorry. Did not know that earlier :))
Yeah, I don't think she's interested in any relationship...
Keyword: I don’t think
Missing keyword: I am certain
I'm certain she says she doesn't want any kids...
Ok. I give up. 😂😊😄
Like I gave up on ever seeing that $100
😂😂
You actually have to try, and grow emotionally.
Nice answer.. And that's very true
They need to learn to communicate and forgive
Forgive for the most part, I agree. But there are certain things that are unforgivable
About the importance of physical attraction and/ or money.
Sex isn't mandatory