He is not overreacting. It is definitely a deal breaker for me. It is not whether he trusts you or not, it’s the fucker who you let sleep in your house while you we’re alone that he doesn’t know and trust.
It's not a deal breaker. He doesn't know what had happened that night. So it's OK type of behavior by him. Because most girls, nowadays, are REALLY NOT trustworthy
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He is not overreacting. It is definitely a deal breaker for me. It is not whether he trusts you or not, it’s the fucker who you let sleep in your house while you we’re alone that he doesn’t know and trust.
Its very suspicious. You are sowing seeds of doubt in his mind
"male friend"
what are you, 5?
GROW THE FUCK UP
I know right? And people wonder why men are skeptical of women who surround themselves with male "friends"
For me it would be a deal breaker even if they told me about it.
Put yourself in his shoes, what if he had his long time female friend sleep over in his single bed room apartment and didn’t even mention it to you
No he isn’t , how would you feel if his girl friend slept over without you knowing?
No. He isn't. You already know what most folks are going to think. If you want that kind of freedom in a relationship, why don't you communicate that?
I sometimes sleep at my friends (F) place when we go out, their boyfriends know. They do know me tough, and we also get along verry well.
You should have told him. I would break up with my partner because I would feel like they’re trying to hide something.
I wouldn't be happy about it. How will you feel when he starts having female friends hang out and sleep over occasionally?
The problem is you "didn't think that would be an issue. "
That means you don't have enough common sense to be in a serious relationship.
I don't even need to respond, i think the bullet points have been set out already!
It's not a deal breaker. He doesn't know what had happened that night. So it's OK type of behavior by him. Because most girls, nowadays, are REALLY NOT trustworthy
You were wrong to allow your ex to come over and you know it, this is just common sense. Your boyfriend should dump you.
It wasn't her ex.
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy This still isn't cool.
Agree.
There wasn't any reason to not tell your boyfriend if nothing happened.
Would you be okay with him having a lady friend sleep over without telling you and you not knowing her?
For me it would depend on if he slept in her bed with her or he slept on the couch.
he's just a guy friend and he didn't sleep in your bed
Yes thats over reacting
Not very smart. How would you feel if you found out he had a girl spend night at his place.
Alittle bit. but understandably so. You should have at least sent your boyfriend a message saying that you have a friend staying over.
I hate when skin bags say so MEANINGLESS/ want you to say such MEANINGLESS things. My throat rattles in silence. Aaa-ggghhhhhhh ehhhhh!