I know, but men specifically like doing traditionally masculine things for women, like lifting something heavy, killing a spider or bug, or something similar. Why? Because it makes them feel manly and like a protector. I thought I made my point pretty clear.
Major turn off. I don't like women who play victim, and I'm not a white knight. Women can take care of themselves. It's not my job to solve their problems.
I do have a thing for a damsel in distress, and yeah, I think it's a protective thing. It can be a problem though and I've had to become a bit calloused about it. Too many people look to exploit that.
Super Mario likes his damsel in distress princess Peach. If I were a man, I may like it and it would depend on this situation. I’d like to help a male “damsel in distress” too as a woman. :)
No, panywaste! Too much drama! Pull up your pants get up on those two feet and get on with it. Your all you have so damsil in distress? Please!! The earth didn't become flat all of a sudden
I like to take care of a girl. You are whats called a soy boy or a beta. So that makes sense you want a girl who takes care of herself and maybe you too.
But because I'm a guy who likes girls who don't need me to fight for them, I'm a beta. You wanna call me that? Fine.
But do not insult me by comparing me to the overemotional male SJWs on the Regressive Left. I can assure you, I'm not nearly as intolerant and weak as they are.
I didn't call you a liberal. Lol. But you are making the connection that betas often tend to be liberal. Im glad you're not though because that would be really pathetic. I can't stand those dudes.
But why do you want a girl who is so strong she doesn't need you? Dont you want to be a king? Personally i dont get it. And im myself so strong id never find a girl on my level so thankfully i dont like what you like.
Again, I'm not interested in fulfilling male roles. So for me, a girl being strong enough not to want or need my protection works. I just like traditionally masculine traits in women, especially physical strength and fighting skill. So to me, the ideal woman would be a sporty tomboy. Or, in the context of a few centuries ago, a female warrior.
And despite what some news outlets like Fox News say, not all liberals are SJWs. I have a liberal friend, and he hates SJWs. I even subscribed to the YouTuber Shoe0nHead. Shoe0nHead's a liberal, and she calls out and makes fun of SJWs in many of her videos.
Is there a difference between a liberal and a sjw? You seem no different to me.
Plus loss of gender roles is the cause of whatever sjw is. A woman who is capable of behavior like a man is a fantasy. They do this thing called a "shit test" which is common in dating but they also do it in their whole life if they can get away with it. Soft beta white knight men allow and support this behavior so they always go far left. And men like you tolerate it and enjoy it. Ie some strong badass girl like your fantasy is going to tell you what to do. And she will push you force you demand you engage in more leftist shit than you would have on your own.
Alpha men put women in their place. Everytime they try to pull some leftist nonsense shit test we say NO. Its the mans job to maintain discipline. Women cannot maintain discipline. They always try to break rules and change norms.
I already know about shit tests. But in case it wasn't clear already, the women who do that are not what I'm into.
A liberal is someone who is willing to question tradition, while SJWs are obsessed with abolishing all tradition, and they take the principle of progressivism to an extreme. So my friend and Shoe0nHead are basically moderate liberals; they're more nuanced.
Plus, women who are naturally masculine are pretty rare, but they do exist. And I'm not referring to the average tomboy, either.
Even if I was as effeminate as you say I am, why does that matter in this situation?
I understood that a lot of men like you would love a damsel in distress; I pointed that out in the second sentence of my question. I was just hoping for a good, reasonable discussion with the people responding. You going all Red Pill on me was not necessary. I'm in the minority of what men find attractive. It wasn't an extreme thing, but still. I prefer masculine traits in women and don't want to be the hero. There's nothing wrong with that.
Even if you were right about me being a soy boy, why is that relevant here?
Well to answer your question. The more masculine role i can take the more feminine role my girl can take. The more feminine the more passionate, sexual arousal, romance, love, i experience.
And that works for YOU. Not all men think or act the same way, and just because they do does not mean that they are betas, cucks, soy boys, or whatever.
If a girl is stronger and more capable than you how could you not be a beta? And if you're a liberal how could you not be a soy boy? And if your girl is more masculine than you she will most certainly cheat and that makes you a cuck.
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Everyone has problems sometimes. You just don't want to constantly be coming to a woman's rescue. It gets annoying
I know, but men specifically like doing traditionally masculine things for women, like lifting something heavy, killing a spider or bug, or something similar. Why? Because it makes them feel manly and like a protector. I thought I made my point pretty clear.
Yeah, you were clear
Well, my question for you is do you like feeling like a woman's protector when you help her or not?
I'm indifferent to it. It's okay to feel like I could positively impact someone's day, but I don't get some sense of personal validation from it.
Major turn off. I don't like women who play victim, and I'm not a white knight. Women can take care of themselves. It's not my job to solve their problems.
They are tons of trouble, but as a removed white knight... it's nice to feel needed.
I do have a thing for a damsel in distress, and yeah, I think it's a protective thing. It can be a problem though and I've had to become a bit calloused about it. Too many people look to exploit that.
Super Mario likes his damsel in distress princess Peach. If I were a man, I may like it and it would depend on this situation. I’d like to help a male “damsel in distress” too as a woman. :)
No, panywaste! Too much drama! Pull up your pants get up on those two feet and get on with it. Your all you have so damsil in distress? Please!! The earth didn't become flat all of a sudden
I wouldn't mind if she were a damsel in distress or she were to be able to protect herself, or even reverse role in protecting me. I'm neutral here.
You sound lazy. If I’m able to lift something a woman couldn’t I would. Why not be helpful?
Didn't you read the update? I said I would help women close to me out. But unlike other men, I don't feel like a manly protector because of it.
That was my whole point: Damsels in distress turn me off, because I don't feel validated by coming to their rescue.
Women are always in distress and need a strong man who can keep her in line with his strong nips.
I look for a woman who can take care of herself but allows me to instead.
No , I find them interesting. Help someone in need...
The modern damsels in distress are just manipulative chicks. They are best to be avoided.
I like to take care of a girl. You are whats called a soy boy or a beta. So that makes sense you want a girl who takes care of herself and maybe you too.
But because I'm a guy who likes girls who don't need me to fight for them, I'm a beta. You wanna call me that? Fine.
But do not insult me by comparing me to the overemotional male SJWs on the Regressive Left. I can assure you, I'm not nearly as intolerant and weak as they are.
I didn't call you a liberal. Lol. But you are making the connection that betas often tend to be liberal. Im glad you're not though because that would be really pathetic. I can't stand those dudes.
But why do you want a girl who is so strong she doesn't need you? Dont you want to be a king? Personally i dont get it. And im myself so strong id never find a girl on my level so thankfully i dont like what you like.
Again, I'm not interested in fulfilling male roles. So for me, a girl being strong enough not to want or need my protection works. I just like traditionally masculine traits in women, especially physical strength and fighting skill. So to me, the ideal woman would be a sporty tomboy. Or, in the context of a few centuries ago, a female warrior.
And despite what some news outlets like Fox News say, not all liberals are SJWs. I have a liberal friend, and he hates SJWs. I even subscribed to the YouTuber Shoe0nHead. Shoe0nHead's a liberal, and she calls out and makes fun of SJWs in many of her videos.
Is there a difference between a liberal and a sjw? You seem no different to me.
Plus loss of gender roles is the cause of whatever sjw is. A woman who is capable of behavior like a man is a fantasy. They do this thing called a "shit test" which is common in dating but they also do it in their whole life if they can get away with it. Soft beta white knight men allow and support this behavior so they always go far left. And men like you tolerate it and enjoy it. Ie some strong badass girl like your fantasy is going to tell you what to do. And she will push you force you demand you engage in more leftist shit than you would have on your own.
Alpha men put women in their place. Everytime they try to pull some leftist nonsense shit test we say NO. Its the mans job to maintain discipline. Women cannot maintain discipline. They always try to break rules and change norms.
I already know about shit tests. But in case it wasn't clear already, the women who do that are not what I'm into.
A liberal is someone who is willing to question tradition, while SJWs are obsessed with abolishing all tradition, and they take the principle of progressivism to an extreme. So my friend and Shoe0nHead are basically moderate liberals; they're more nuanced.
Plus, women who are naturally masculine are pretty rare, but they do exist. And I'm not referring to the average tomboy, either.
Question it vs abolish it... either way you are so far from masculine its ridiculous.
Even if I was as effeminate as you say I am, why does that matter in this situation?
I understood that a lot of men like you would love a damsel in distress; I pointed that out in the second sentence of my question. I was just hoping for a good, reasonable discussion with the people responding. You going all Red Pill on me was not necessary. I'm in the minority of what men find attractive. It wasn't an extreme thing, but still. I prefer masculine traits in women and don't want to be the hero. There's nothing wrong with that.
Even if you were right about me being a soy boy, why is that relevant here?
Well to answer your question. The more masculine role i can take the more feminine role my girl can take. The more feminine the more passionate, sexual arousal, romance, love, i experience.
And that works for YOU. Not all men think or act the same way, and just because they do does not mean that they are betas, cucks, soy boys, or whatever.
No. It does mean they are beta soy boy cucks.
If a girl is stronger and more capable than you how could you not be a beta? And if you're a liberal how could you not be a soy boy? And if your girl is more masculine than you she will most certainly cheat and that makes you a cuck.
What if being masculine and dominant comes naturally to them?
You mean like pretend masculine and dominant? Like a bdsm dom who says please give me permission to tell you what to do and wears a fedora?
It's one of those things that's okay occasionally but if it's constant no thanks.
No at all it isn’t neither turn off or on it just helping other
Yes it’s a turn off. This is basically my younger stepsister and it’s annoying like crazy
Wow--yeah I have no interest in masculine girls. I much prefer my girls super feminine.
What about physically feminine but still a powerful warrior underneath?
@UncleJessieRabbit That's great, but I wouldn't call that a masculine girl.
If it’s constant, meaning she’s always in crisis, then fuck no. Don’t be so needy.
There are some elements I strongly dislike and some okay with
The opposite. Men love to feel useful, and getting to "save her" does that quite effectively.