Why does he keep postponing important events?

Anonymous
My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years and we're also in a long distance.
Long story short, I had travelled to where he lives twice and been with him in person over a month. However, he hasn't come to see me yet. I was understanding about the situation but he eventually promised me he would see me last year... well i think that should tell you how it went. he wasn't able to. he then promised to see me in February but postponed until the middle of March. We talked one the phone awhile ago but he just told me he needs to extend the date again. Im slightly disappointed because he's been getting my hopes up and I was certain that I was going to see him but now I feel like a fool in a way cause I told my parents about him and they kept asking me when are they going to meet him and I keep saying next month.. next year... Its not just this that he postpones but a lot of things like a video call, or playing together..
Why does he keep postponing important events?
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