Red flags can be multiple things happenning but on the top are being careless and ignorant as if you don't exist or doing thinga for you as if it's a duty cause she's the spouse and not out of love...
though its not a red flag it should be , if you have a bad paying job and your new girl friend is expecting you to be like her ex and it may take a while so you come off as a jerk because you can't get some things because of your bad paying job lol.
s0 yeah i got a job but can't afford the cool girl friend boy friend stuff but at least im friend zone material lol
Biggest red flag EVER - mixed signals I. e. the hot and cold syndrome!! A man (or woman) who canβt make up their mind to begin with will *never* make up their mind.
Clingy Dishonesty Too many last minute "no shows" with no viable explanations Lack of personal hygiene Shares ZERO interests of yours (they don't have to be your clone, but a few would be nice) Being totally bossy or totally passive (not in the sexy way) Ignoring your needs/wishes, or at least not even acknowledging them Plays the "poor little ol' me" character- often indicative of a borderline personality disorder Hates bacon (very critical).
Spends less time with you, pays less attention to you while in the house with you, is less interested in you, no longer enjoys or desires you, gets more irritated around you rather than relaxed or happy
Wish I can list them. List probably would vary person to person. The question would be more like which one you have seen ignored and wish you have not ignored.
If one of you has to beg for sex or your not aligned together on money habits. If either of these things are a trouble spot your probably headed off a cliff. You can usually overlook someone's bad gas, constantly burning the chicken or leaving the toilet seat up.
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Red flags can be multiple things happenning but on the top are being careless and ignorant as if you don't exist or doing thinga for you as if it's a duty cause she's the spouse and not out of love...
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When they make no effort that helps develop the relationship in a positive direction
That's definitely a necessity and a big red flag if they don't
though its not a red flag it should be , if you have a bad paying job and your new girl friend is expecting you to be like her ex and it may take a while so you come off as a jerk because you can't get some things because of your bad paying job lol.
s0 yeah i got a job but can't afford the cool girl friend boy friend stuff but at least im friend zone material lol
Biggest red flag EVER - mixed signals I. e. the hot and cold syndrome!!
A man (or woman) who canβt make up their mind to begin with will *never* make up their mind.
If she has the name of her last boyfriend tattooed on her.
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If she wanted to bring a friend along on the hooneymoon
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i've learned if your person go's missing and can't be reached then thats a red flag
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Always on their phone or device rather than talking or even looking my direction
I agree
Clingy
Dishonesty
Too many last minute "no shows" with no viable explanations
Lack of personal hygiene
Shares ZERO interests of yours (they don't have to be your clone, but a few would be nice)
Being totally bossy or totally passive (not in the sexy way)
Ignoring your needs/wishes, or at least not even acknowledging them
Plays the "poor little ol' me" character- often indicative of a borderline personality disorder
Hates bacon (very critical).
Wanting to live apart I guess, not wanting to go away together
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keeping you at bay still actively dating and being emotionally disconnected and only wanting sex
Agree those are red flags
You know what they say intelligent minds think alike
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Always in the couch always on their phone never let you see what's on the phone never use a password and it changed the password
Catching him having sex with the cat would make me suspect he wasn't 100% committed.
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Meant red flagπ but cat, tree, kinda fit lololol
Lock your cat in the garage!
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Spends less time with you, pays less attention to you while in the house with you, is less interested in you, no longer enjoys or desires you, gets more irritated around you rather than relaxed or happy
Very many. Just can't label. Lot of things people ignore early in relationship are red flags.
That's true!
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Wish I can list them. List probably would vary person to person. The question would be more like which one you have seen ignored and wish you have not ignored.
That's what the question is tho, what your red flags are, cuz they can differ for people
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Crying over little things,
bitching about other people,
having a lot of boyfriends
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Chatting and showing affection to every other girls except me😒
That's definitely no good
They are constantly going out turning up and someone who lies and does sneaky shorty behind ya back
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If one of you has to beg for sex or your not aligned together on money habits. If either of these things are a trouble spot your probably headed off a cliff. You can usually overlook someone's bad gas, constantly burning the chicken or leaving the toilet seat up.