Yes I had a friends with benefit for over a year and the last time we sex when she was getting ready to leave she said oh yeah. Hold on I wanted to give you this is the card I opened it up and she was invited me to her wedding and I said what I go you're getting ready to go out how long have you known this guy she said over a year. I said you had a boyfriend all this time, are you kidding me she said no he said don't worry about it we can still see each other after I get married and they said no we can't I said if I would have known you had a boyfriend I wouldn't have been doing this because that's what I thought you would say that's why I never told you I haven't been laid for over a year I am so fucking horny it is unreal I have so much passion and desire that I just want to share with somebody and to this day that girl still calls me up and asked me if she could come over it's this day I keep saying no even though I would love it I just don't believe it but we are still friends
I have with two of my friends. We don't talk as much since they're married and I dont want them to have an emotional affair or second thoughts, but we catch up a few times a year.
It can happen, although it helps if you're either 1) geographically convenient or 2) both just in the habit of texting or online gaming or calling to check up on people.
Usually you need to take a break from each other just normal space to fill your lives up again, maybe start dating other people, and then figure out an activity that you both like during daylight hours.
I have a similar situation as you. We go biking or go for a walk I don't know maybe once a month on a spare sunny day.
I have another similar situation, he's a video gamer and sometimes I game. Sometimes we play a game and hop on discord (voice chat).
We are friends, we both know there's no future. We genuinely wish the best for each other. After a while one or both parties are always dating so it's rare that both are single at the same time
Yes. It takes a good friendship and maturity though, otherwise it absolutely will not work. Chances are unless you where really good friends, you probably won't hangout or talk much without the sex. But being on good terms and staying friendly is most definitely possible if you're both sane people, and strong feelings aren't involved. It's been done.
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s Sure, they can. It is a friend that just happens to have benefits with you. It might be hard in the beginning to not be able to get what you are used to getting from them, but it isn't impossible at all.
I just stepped away from my online friends with benefits yesterday to take a break and he is completely good with it. He is still being just as sweet and concerned about me today as he was before we started anything.
A friends with benefits cannot go back to being just friends. A friend with a benefits can turn into a relationship (rarely ever happens) or two people never speaking again.
i personally wouldn't bother with either of those. either the guy wants a committed relationship or i'm gone. sorry. this just makes people depressed, confused, worried, etc. not worth the stress.
Only if you want to. Don't expect him to hang around waiting.
You've already proven your worth, which is absolutely zero. So this one is already burned. No, you were just a warm place to put it.
I don't and won't ever be in a FWBs situation. And no I don't think that it can go from that back to platonic.
absolutely and Tuesday they are some of my closest and best friends that I have and I'm very fortunate to have friends of the caliber in my life
No straight guy has a girl around (who isn’t family) or makes time in his life for a girl he doesn’t want to fuck.
So no, “platonic” friends do not truly exist between men and women.
Men and women can't be platonic friends in the first place.
No, but I wouldn't be against It.
You sound like a disaster.
Yes, several times
Yes..
No, not really.
