If I withhold information, I’m being secretive and I tell her it affects her mental health.
I’m dealing with banking stuff right now and she asked me what what was I doing and today has been devoted to me switching bank accounts last week. I was having all kind of issues with my previous bank. I found a bank locally , but beyond that today was about some banking loose ends. So I expressed to her how upset the bank made me feel today , but I’m calm now. She told me that it was causing her anxiety to go up. So I told her that I wouldn’t tell her about the bank situation anymore because it will take a few weeks before everything is stable with my new bank. My girlfriend felt like I was being secretive by withholding information by saying that? Last night , she told me how sore and aching she was. She expressed to me how working long hours, doubles, and getting up early was a lot. I feel like me trusting strangers is best when I’m being expressive or going through something.
I’m dealing with banking stuff right now and she asked me what what was I doing and today has been devoted to me switching bank accounts last week. I was having all kind of issues with my previous bank. I found a bank locally , but beyond that today was about some banking loose ends. So I expressed to her how upset the bank made me feel today , but I’m calm now. She told me that it was causing her anxiety to go up. So I told her that I wouldn’t tell her about the bank situation anymore because it will take a few weeks before everything is stable with my new bank. My girlfriend felt like I was being secretive by withholding information by saying that? Last night , she told me how sore and aching she was. She expressed to me how working long hours, doubles, and getting up early was a lot. I feel like me trusting strangers is best when I’m being expressive or going through something.
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I can’t be expressive to my girlfriend because her mental health suffers either her anxiety goes up , she has a panic attack , or she is overwhelmed.. I don’t want to tell her emergency situations nor non emergency situations going on in my life. Today I was busy , but it feels like me being expressive how I feel is a problem. I’m stuck between a rock and a hard place.
