Would you stay with someone who doesn't clean, cheat while you're pregnant and never have money for his half of the rent?

[beautyperfection]

My baby's father and I have been together for 2 years now and It has been TERRIBLE being with him. When I first met him, He had an Infant. He had no car, no home. So, I felt sorry for him and moved him into my apartment. (Stupid decision I know). After that, he got me pregnant. During my pregnancy, He cheated on me with his 1st baby mom (which she told me she didn't know I was pregnant) I was still mad at her- plus he cheated on me with some other woman. (But I ignored it and kept taken him back). 2 kids later, now, when I come home, the house isn't clean, he doesn't wash dishes, he doesn't wash clothes, he talks about his 1st baby mother, and when its time to pay his half of the rent, He's ALWAYS broke, he makes me beg my family to watch our kids and for money for our kids. . Also, He's still cheating. he's staying out Late at night with Other females while I'm at home Watching his Now 2 year old son and Our 2 other kids😑. I'm so depressed! but at the same time, I don't want to be left with 2 kids😔. Somebody please help! What should I do?

[Alpha09]

Most definitely not. Though you say you don't want to be left with two kids, but it sounds like you have three. Yeet him, he's not helping anyway. at least then you can get full custody and a judge could potentially get you some money out of him if he's forced to get a job. You will be before off without him, if you keep him around he could end up giving you an std with all the cheating. He's disrespecting you and your kids, don't let him.

[beautyperfection]

He has me babysitting his 1st child (from his 1st baby's mother. The one he cheated on me with) I only have 2 kids with him.

[Alpha09]

Oh god please leave him if possible. Sounds like you're the babysitter while he's cheating with his other baby mama. You can do better.

[Aheemas93]

omg leave him.

kids are not an excuse to stay in a toxic relationship. also it is important to raise your children in a healthy environment. what they see is what they will become. do you want them to suffer through a horrible life bc of the choices u made? absolutely not.

run. kick his ass to the curb. you will find someone better. someone who will accept your kids, love you for you, and take care of you

[slatyb]

Don’t waste your life on this guy. Don’t get with a man because you feel sorry for him. You can’t fix him, he’ll just fuck up your life.

[Hikki101]

Take your kids, find a job, make plans to move out. You made a bad decision. Don't make it worse.

[Nicegirldaqui]

He's definitely not doing anything to help you, leaving him you'll be not losing anything. He's a height in your shoulders.

[Anonymous]

You sound like a door mat. And he does what men always do with door mats.

[CreamySeed]

That dude sounds like he gets 🐈 for days. Must be handsome

[Anonymous]

He's broke, he's not helping...

Do I need to say more?

[MzAsh]

Throw him out.

[KloexJayne]

Sounds like you want a parent more than a partner.

[jahaims]

No, I'm not retarded.

[Reah1]

Make an exit plan

[Marco86]

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