I’m pregnant. Partner wants me to do abortion. If I don’t he wants to commit suicide? (Page 2)

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My partner and I have been together for 5 years. He’s 27 years old and I’m 25. We’re in a long distance relationship and just recently we met each other again. He stayed at my place for nearly a month and during that time, we had sex.  He told me that he wanted to impregnate me and have his baby in me. I asked him if he’s sure about that since I don’t want to have unprotected sex considering the possibility. He said yeah. We ended up having unprotected sex and he came in me. He kept asking me if I was pregnant but the tests I took after all came out negative. Unfortunately he had to go back to his home town in another state. Then I took another test around my expected period and it came out positive. I told him about it and he seemed happy considering he said we can do this together. Then hours later he told me he can’t do this? I avoided talking to him for awhile and every time he talks to me. He strongly wants me to do an abortion. I keep telling him I can’t. I’m 12 weeks along right now and I can’t do that. Then he said stuff back to me hurting my feelings saying that getting me pregnant was only his kink and that he wants to commit suicide if I don’t go through with the abortion.  I need advice on what to do during this situation because I don’t want to have an abortion but this is “mentally driving him crazy” as that was what he said. I’m strongly worried about the person I’m with now.

AmeerX · Answer

No abortion. He is unstable, he is better off dead. He won't commit suicide but he is stupid and crazy if he wants to commit suicide over this. A birth is God's blessing. İf he doesn't want it, then it is his problem

Dragonpurple · Answer

I'd say if he wants to end his life so be it. If you don't want to raise the child alone or lose him then give it up for adoption at birth.

BCA6010 · Answer

Your "partner" sounds like a true dipsh*t. Keep the baby, to hell with his piss-poor judgment.

slatyb · Answer

If you continue the pregnancy, accept that you are likely to be a single parent.

jahaims · Answer

Make your choice. Don't let his threats affect it. You aren't responsible if he does or doesn't do it.

es20490446e · Answer

Knowing what you now know, what had you done differently?

Anonymous · Answer

He is toxic and you should tell either his family about it or the police where he lives. He obviously needs mental counseling. And you shouldn't be blackmailed into an abortion.

msc545 · Answer

Worry about your baby, who doesn't deserve to die because your former boyfriend is upset.

ItsMeItsMe1989 · Answer

Then he needs to be put on suicide watch, and you need to get away from him, IMMEDIATELY

lycanthrope3 · Answer

Do not let him force you, you decide for yourself, he is just trying to get out of child support

Anonymous · Answer

What a piece of shit. I would tell him to go kill himself then. That's not something you do a 180 on. No sympathy from me.

scorpion2662 · Answer

How can you get pregnant from someone you just met?

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

Call his bluff. One less asshole in the world.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Someone's got a death fetish!

moviedude714 · Answer

You have the right to decide here

fred_durst · Answer

just let him kill himself

lpoots · Answer

dont be held to emotional blackmail

InferiorElegy · Answer

It's your body, your choice.

JesseJayNeak · Answer

He's such an asshole. You better break up with him

I’m pregnant. Partner wants me to do abortion. If I don’t he wants to commit suicide? (Page 2)

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