How to cope up with this situation?

[Anonymous]

1.5 years relationship. We both were at home for 4 months. We used to text and call a lot everyday. She used to say each and everything happening in her life to me.( I'm gonna bath, I'm wearing this dress, I had this for food, an ant bit me.. everything)

3 days ago she went to her university hostel for exams. Now she's always busy with her studies and friends. Even if she has nothing to do, she would just sleep! I'm still at home and I really miss her. Now, she rarely talk to me. (For a few minutes at night).

I'm feeling sad and angry that she's not getting/finding time for me. I work at home from morning to evening. Still i miss her. I talked about this to her yesterday, still no change. How to cope up with this?

[SecretsofKB]

Well it has only been a day since you told her how you were feeling. And it's only been 3 days since she went back to school. It won't be this busy the whole time. It is just because it just started 3 days ago. Give it a little bit of time and it will get better.

Please don't take this the wrong way, but you seem a little clingy. You need to understand that it's a busy time right now for her. Once things calm down for her, it'll get back to normal for you two.

Like I said, it's only been 3 days. If this continues for a few weeks, I'd be more worried. Just relax and be supportive.

[Asker]

Thanks for the feel good reply :) yeah, I'm a bit clingy and is trying to change 🤦. Have a good day :)

[spartan55]

Move on dude. The longer you wait the harder it will be.