Give me a reason to breakup with my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

Been together for almost 6 months. Over the months I can see him slowly losing his interest and now he is suffering in this relationship. Few days back we are with our friends and he openly flirted with another friend of ours. (No one knows about us because he wants to keep it a secret). Talk, laughing together and even held her hands. Something that we can never achieve. When we are together we can't even find a topic to talk and they just laugh and talk with her like they are the ones in relationship. Yes, even another friend thought they are together. I also got to know that he has a massive crush on a girl a year or two just a month before he confessed to me. I heard his feelings didn't get reciprocated and now I felt like a rebound or some sort. No, his family don't know that we are together too. We don't meet up regularly although we live 10 minutes away. He not only once, but thrice, bailed on me because his friends asked him to go out. We text on a daily basis but it is just a wyd and some simple exchange, that's it. I don't expect 25/8 communication and I don't need his attention 24/7. But at some point it felt like I am the only one in this relationship. I still really like him above all, but it is really emotionally draining me at this point. Give me a reason to break up with him.

[ohshee]

Well it's not cool for me to give you that reason you're going to have to make a choice but who you are or how you want to be treated and have the confidence to know did that's very capable it might take a moment but that moment with you worth waiting for. And anybody that does give you a reason yes I understand it is basically a form of manipulating you. Wake me my recent would be well you better break up with him because you want to experience something new something beautiful and to be taken to a place where you've never felt or been before break up with him you can send me a message start talking and then I'm going too allow you in because I want to make it all about you and I want to tell you and show you exactly what I'm talking about. Okay so see that is truly coming from my heart but at the same time as a form of manipulation and I don't believe in that even though everything I said I would actually love to do I feel energy from people and I can feel yours and I know that you have a very beautiful heart plus I'm looking for a good friend and to be even more honest even those two things I just said is a form of manipulation even though they're true so you have to really watch Hey listen I know the person when you take any type of advice from them if you really knew who I was then you would know exactly that I spoke from my heart that I feel as if it's manipulation even though it's very very true

[ohshee]

So how's it going

[ohshee]

Have you figured it out yet

[Anonymous]

Logically you should break up with him but he's wanted by other women that make him more attractive and will make you fight more for him. I believe you will not leave now maybe another 6 months or a year still doubt it

[Anonymous]

Seems like he’s only keeping you around until something better comes along… you’re right in thinking that you might be a rebound. The fact the he’s keeping you a secret is mad sus! Plus the fact that he openly flirted with someone else in front of you shows how little respect he has for your relationship. You’ve listed all the reasons you need in your post so I suggest you leave before you get even more hurt, you deserve someone who isn’t afraid to show you off!

[JosyJosy]

(No one knows about us because he wants to keep it a secret). This would be enough for me, I already stopped reading. Someone who wants to keep a relationship secret isn't someone who's in it for the long run

[OddBeMe]

Sounds like you made your own list. Just move on. Think of how many men you're missing each day with this slug.

[Anonymous]

He is a piece of shit and your "Secret" relationship is degrading.
You are having a one side relationship with a guy who doesn't love you.
You stay because he's attractive and you want him.

[Sketti2021]

You have reasons already