Any thoughts on this question and response?

[Anonymous]

Girls, is the possibility of a terrible father-in-law a dealbreaker? Why or why not?

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Your man tells you about your potential future father-in-law. The father is emotionally abusive towards his children and their mother. He is mean, nasty, passive agressive, emotionally manipulative, and enjoys screaming at the people he supposedly loves. Your man hates that about him, and is not like that at all. But if you go forward with the relationship you will need to deal with him in some capacity.

Is this a dealbreaker? Why or why not? Feel free to ask for more information if you feel you need it.

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sarahlumpkinXper 5 Age 19 , mho 25%
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I would watch Forensic Files and take copious notes.

[Let_me_think]

Honestly the question itself is a great question and I myself would need to think about it, there are many variables missing in the equation that would lead to my answer. However I find your answer quite funny lol. In all honesty something like that might work, but there is a very low chance. It would be better to identify his toxic traits and bring them to light then get others to either seek help or set boundaries in place to protect any potential future children from getting involved with the grandfather's shenanigans.

[KimmyKimmy]

I didn't block you, but I did cancel your ability to follow me. I ask about 2-3 questions per day, and I Never once invited people to answer them. I just throw the question up and let people decide if they want to answer it. And tons of people answer my questions, because they want to... not because they feel they have to.

[Asker]

Sure. I just gave a response... mind in neutral, emotions in gear. No worries.

[KimmyKimmy]

You didn't give a response, you asked a question.

[tropicalbreeze]

Yeah it's probably a deal-breaker. Each to their own in judging these things about in-laws or future family.

[DizzyDesii]

Almost all my exes had an abusive mom or dad. Thankfully most cut that parent off so i didn't have to meet em. But for those who let the parent stick around, they started to carry on their parents toxicness and i didn't have time for that. Im glad to have escaped those relationships

[Cherry234]

My dad behaves similarly. It wouldn't be a dealbreaker for me but I would want to stay away from his father as much as possible. I would only speak to him if I have to. If I really love the man, I'm not going to let someone in his family who's garbage stop me from being with him

[karaspara]

No it's not I would have as little to do with him as possible and if he tried his crap with my children Grandad will be getting an early grave

[Asker]

Yes, karaspara. The punch line is my response.

[loves2learn]

Not a deal breaker. Just avoid him and don't put up with his shit.

[loves2learn]

As far as your response. He might e a serial killer, might not. Remains to be seen. It’s often the quiet ones.

[Iron_Man]

First you have to ask yourself can handle it

[Asker]

Look at the response. I think you will laugh.

[Anonymous]

it's up to you if you want to be with him or not