FaceTime with ex for 15mins was I wrong? should I just be a man grow up or how should I cope with the break up (been together for 1 year 5 months)?

[Anonymous]

So I broke up with my girlfriend because she was on the phone with her ex now I know that sounds childish but it’s not the FaceTime that did it for me it’s the I communicate how I feel about the situation and explain to her why I don’t like it and for her to do it multiple times not just FaceTiming but texting deleting messages it’s hard because I do care bout her and hate seeing her down but I feel like I put other people feelings before mine I just feel like u disrespect me once I forgave her did again it’s like the same shit over and over

[kyleelyn199723]

I think it’s reasonable that you broke up with her. You aren’t comfortable with the communication with her ex and you voiced it, and she didn’t change. Let her and her ex have each other. Apparently you weren’t important enough to her to cut ties with her ex

[Asker]

Yea it’s easier to deal with forgiveness then breakUp, I’m so f up in the head I would normally just tell her let’s just forget bout it and go back to being together Shit hurt hurt badly not like I not loyal Or done her bad I give her the world like I don’t what’s wrong with me that someone would just do more wrong I know I’m not emotionally there she used to get so upset when I ain’t hug her how she wanted me to way I grew up my mom ain’t like to be touched so hugs wasn’t the most popular damn I really got personal lol

[kyleelyn199723]

You aren’t F’ed up , you are being logical. We leave people behind for people we love. I love my boyfriend so much, I gave up my social media accounts like Instagram and Facebook for a better overall relationship. Was I hesitant at first? Yes I was, but in the end we do things for people we love, especially things that should not be that important , like an example is an ex. There’s a problem when FaceTiming an ex is more important than your boyfriends feelings

[Asker]

Yea that’s true I just feel like I need to tell somebody this I feel like I need to just lock my emotions in a box but then again I’m a cancer most emotional people u ever meet but it’s like she meet my family it’s like I broke up with her now I got break up with her to my family I don’t think I’ll ever love again don’t think I’ll ever love a female again like that and it’s crazy if there is a next the next female don’t even deserve that not to be sexiest or anything but I feel like females are the most cold hearted beings in this world

[kyleelyn199723]

Well don’t ruin yourself over this situation 😊she probably wasn’t worth it and sounds pretty immature. You have a right to feel how you feel, but then there’s other girls that wouldn’t ever want to make you feel that way. I wish the best of luck for you.

[Anonymous]

Breaking up with her because she was talking to her ex is childish WTH ! Don't listen to simps and don't simp and don't listen woman advice about relationship you did the damn right thing. Now or later she will hook up with him for a ride pump n dump I bet he's abusive one that she can't get over him. Don't listen to the hypocrite society women want men to simp and not awake so she can be with both Chad and the beta male later the provider. Always listen to your spider man sense it's 99.99% true.

Ghost her totally change your number wipe you IG if you have one leave her before she drain the hell out of you

[Gwenhwyfar]

That is troubling what she did but I guess it depends on context