My boyfriend slapped a girl in a music videos ass 8 times in a row.. am I wrong to be upset?

[Anonymous]

My bfs friend had a video shoot and there were half naked girls there dancing for the video... which I am not mad about at all. But then I see a video on instagram of my boyfriend slapping the girls ass who was dancing for the video like 8 times in a row. It's a literal turn off and I told him that... but I know he just gonna say its for a video and I'm being unreasonable.. but personally I think I have a solid reason to be upset at that.

[Coulis]

Having been around the music scene I would say you are looking in the wrong place for a respectful and loyal relationship. That's what he does when he knows you will see.

You'll eventually be gaslight into thinking him dating other girls along with has some legitimate reason. Been there in my younger days.

You've been warned.

[RiverUndertheSkY]

He’s shooting a music video.

but there are certain lines you don’t cross

you can still make a sexy and professional looking music video without physically touching the models like that.

so yeah you should talk to him

[jasco]

I mean yea i guess it would be annoying to see your boyfriend doing that but at the same time it is a video so i can see where he is coming from as well. Why don't you just ask him to not do it so much during the next video

[TheFlak38]

of course when you explore your thousands of other options then there is no problem at all. It's only a problem when men do it. #FemaleDoubleStandards

[Anonymous]

Yes you have a right to be mad at him. What if he had sex with her in the music video? You would have a right to be mad about that wouldn't you?

[Anonymous]

If it's his job, you gotta figure out if you wanna go or stay.

[Anonymous]

How did her ass compare to yours?