Which heartbreak or love deception would you rather have?

[Vesuvius87]

I fell in love with a total sham once; someone that never existed. He played that role for years.

Honestly which heartbreak or love deception would you rather deal with?
A) Getting cheated on or finding out they love someone else
- They once had feelings for you but things happened and they cheated on you. Or they loved you but at the same time can't get over an ex partner who they also love. This is obviously the common scenario many people deal with.

B) Finding out they can't love anyone at all
- They never had real feelings for you (they have zero to little ability to love) or if they did, they saw you as a commodity to get something. They forged a complete relationship and kept the act going for years. They aren't even a normal human.

Getting cheated on, them loving someone else

They never love me nor anyone else (they faked it all)

[DizzyDesii]

Damn i dont want either of these 💀😭 I do not like being cheated on and i definitely dont want him falling in love with someone else. Is it weird i rather he be a robot cause at least he doesn't love any of us including his damn self. That Dirty damn stinkin good for nothing downright doodoohead dumb bastard

[Vesuvius87]

yeah both sucks. Though with B, at least you can realize you never did anything wrong to him. Having zero to little ability to love others is afterall a real case of mental disorder, no cure for that.

[Wise4myage]

I say B is the better option.

[Vesuvius87]

True. Even though he faked it for many years, when I realize all this... I didn't miss him at all. I was happy to get rid of him.
Just for the fact that I've loved a fake character he played, not the him. I loved someone that never existed.

[Wise4myage]

Yeah, definitely less painful.