I caught boyfriend messaging multiple girls on Instagram, he apologized and wants me to give him a chance, should i?

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My boyfriend created a insta account I didn't know of and ontop of that blocked me on it so I would have never found out or seen the profile, then I saw multiple messages of him complimenting and flirting with girls about they body, he was the one initiating the msgs as I saw him message so many girls at the same time, I was so shocked because he isn't the type to do this, he always talks about marriage and our future, and he was crying and apologized saying he was stupid and never wants to lose me and that I can go though his phone any time to build trust, I don't know how to feel because I have been so loyal to him, and Ig I didn't catch him it probably wouldn't have stopped, he wants me to give him a chance should I?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

That's pretty shady on his part. The fact that he blocked you shows that he knew what he was doing was wrong and he intended to hide it from you. If he honestly meant no harm by any of it, he wouldn't have gone out of his way to keep it from you. If I were you, I'd have a really hard time trusting him after such a deliberate act.

sunseat · Accepted Answer

hell nah. trust cannot be fixed, and even if he does change to his core, eventually it be hard on you, consciusly or not. if you can and want to cut ties in good terms, go ahead. but, from experience, the emotional drain that comes afterwards, is not worthy.

TheFlak38 · Accepted Answer

of course you are free to have your thousands of male followers on instagram and message them and enjoy their thirsty messages and have a dozen back up guys. It's only a problem when the man does the same. When the woman does it it's fair play. #FemaleDoubleStandards

Desire-for-Greatness · Accepted Answer

The fact that he blocked you means he had the full, sober intent to cheat on you.

I do not condone relationships before marriage but if I were you I'd dump him asap.

He will most certainly do it again.

EtherielQueen1 · Answer

One thing I know is that if someone does something like this once they WILL do it again, just a matter of time. You are teaching them how much you will put up with.

HighValue · Answer

Once trust is broken it can't be fixed. You will never feel the same or have the same confidence in the relationship again after what he did. I'd move on and find someone that is loyal.

SnakeBoop · Answer

depends. how much do you respect yourself? actually, why do you even need to ask? find a man with standards!

funtime_01 · Answer

Ooo, no coming back from that really. Ultimately, it's your choice. People can change, but most don't

Daniela1982 · Answer

Sure, why not?

Anonymous · Answer

You take him back don’t come crying and asking for sympathy if and when he does it again at the end of the day you should be walking away and finding a guy who will remain loyal to you

Sirenboobzilla · Answer

Honestly he'll likely do it again at some point. It all started seeming sketchy and hidden

Raphtaila · Answer

My boyfriend told me to delete Instagram because it reminds him of my past

patrick677 · Answer

Nooo because 100% he will do it again in your back )

LeoLover75 · Answer

How long have you been together?

Iron_Man · Answer

He’ll probably do it again when things get better

genericname85 · Answer

what did he message them about?

Gia013100 · Answer

Drop him or you be allowing him to do so.

SmilesAintAgirl14 · Answer

one chance, only one.

Wester1967 · Answer

Nope.

jahaims · Answer

Dump him

Sketti2021 · Answer

Dump him asap

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