Ohhh my I've had a friend who was in a similar situation - She'd make alibis and excuses for everything the dude did even when knowing the truth - She eventually told me that it seems like I'm trying to sleep with her which is why I'm telling her to get him out of her life - I never spoke to her again - But yea the moment you said he says he loves her but won't commit to her was when I literally got flashbacks😂 - I don't know what to tell you but in your update I felt the same way but worse - I couldn't bear seeing her get played like that while constantly hearing her say shit "Why doesn't he want to be with me?" "I just need to talk to him and we'll fix it" - The dude literally telling all his close and not so close friends - Including myself - that she's a whore and that we should fuck her if we want because it's easy - he called her a pornstar and that she likes black dick even though he's white af (to insinuate she's a whore) , the very next day he saw her to her face he'd tell her he misses her and he can't see her with other guys and even brought her a gift with his perfume on it - but he "can't" be with her - then 15 mins later we'd be playing football and he casually calls her a whore... For all I know he might still be leading her on but I did all I could
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The truth is right in front of her, so she needs to figure that out on her own. And yes, tell to stop mentioning anything about him to you.
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Just continue to reiterate it over and over that he is bad 4 her
Since she's not listening, all you can do is set some boundaries. I would suggest telling her what you mentioned wanting to say in your update.
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