Can you love someone you have never talked to?

[Verlica]

I’m a shy girl and also known as quite kid at my school I’m someone that doesn’t talk to anyone neither anyone talks to me so pretty much I’m at my own world until I met that guy I have found myself liking him tho I have never talked to him and I don’t expect him coming to me one day talking to me but for some reason I just like him? I found myself thinking about him all the time the most thing I like about him the way he thinks he’s just different I don’t think the looks because as me I have always hated the idea of love and crush and I’m someone who’s really careful when it comes to people and talking and the way I think about that person either they are good or not I’m just a bit confused if it’s not love then what is it?

[nonyabeezwax132342]

That's definitely infatuation. Would you still "love" him if you found out that he tortured puppies? What about idolizing Hitler? Collects other girl's V cards like their Yu-Gi-Oh/Pokémon cards? The truth is, if you said no to all of those, you won't get know him until you say start with hello, and you won't love until you get know him. If you said yes, to any of those, thats unhealthy, seek help, talk to a parent/ Guardian, not school staff.

Start with hello, go from there. Take it slow, and try not to have sex as long as possible. Don't let him pressure you into it. Don't have unsafe sex. Also, seek friends and other to form a support group. Having people who care about you and you care about them, will help you if you get hurt.

[PositiveNote]

Oh, yeah. For sure you can! I've been in love with so many girls from your age on up, it would be totally embarrassing to tell. It's very much okay to do so, want you to know!

[slatyb]

That’s a crush. You should start saying hello to your classmates. It will change your life.

[awkward_author]

I, personally, cannot.

It's possible you're experiencing infatuation rather than love.

[Avicenna]

It’s not love, it’s infatuation at this point

[Jamie05rhs]

Aww. You should talk to him, girl!

[Iron_Man]

It’s possible in a strange way

[In_Trance]

how's that gonna work?

[Anonymous]

Maybe infatuation