My friend thinks I stood her up, and blocked me on Snap. What do I do to explain?

[Jax6563]

Ok, i asked my friend if she wanted to hangout last Friday, and she agreed. I use snap and insta to talk to her, but mainly snapchat. I ended up having to reschedule, because i didn't have enough time to finish getting ready to get on the bus for a wrestling match, and i let her know about an hour and a half before we were going to hangout. This was on Instagram, because my phone with snapchat was packed in my duffle in the back of the car.

Fast foward to Saturday, i checked snapchat, and saw that i couldn't see our chats, and she was no longer in my friends list. I couldn't re-add her, so i tried checking Instagram, and i wasn't blocked on there, but she doesn't check her Instagram all that much, so the message from Friday wasn't seen.
I waited till Tuesday, and was looking for her at school to try and talk to her about it, but she has been sick all week, and i have no way to talk with her about it. I also dont want to do any thing overly desperate like make an alt snapchat, but it may be the only way.

[lovelierthanu]

This legit happened to me with this guy that rejected me in April of 2021.. I removed him then added him back being friendly to him and removed him again and I guess he just got tired of the bs. He rejected me because I was “too young” then it was because he wasn’t looking for a relationship. Lmaoo

[jennifer_bloom]

The way I see it is if somebody is willing to discard you without giving you an opportunity to prove your integrity, they are not reliable and should not be bothered with.

[Iron_Man]

Just tell her the exact truth

[Iron_Man]

Thanks for most helpful Award

[Adam1978]

It was to short notice for using those channels. You should have called her. Besides why was there a wrestling match suddenly? I can't see that as a valid reason to bail on a promise.

[Jax6563]

The wrestling match wasn't a sudden thing, we had talked about it the night before before, and i had been preparing for 3 weeks for this match. She knew what the match was for, because she is on the team too, i just needed extra time. I told her i wasn't going to be able to make it, and that we could try Monday, because we didn't have school for presidents day. This wasn't the first time we had to reschedule because of wrestling, but that time she responded to the instagram message within 10 minutes.

Also, I dont have her phone number, the only way i can talk the her is through social media.

[Jax6563]

Something i just remembered, i currently live about 30 mins frim her house, so i feel like it was more than enough time.

[In_Trance]

Call her