he treated me like a goddess,
I felt like the happiest woman in the world,
he often said he loved me more than he loved himself,
he felt like he lived in the dream,
he did show his love with his actions everyday,
he proved his love to me many times but…
due to covid I had to leave his country and haven’t seen him for the last 2 years cause he’s been locked in his country and I couldn’t visit either, For 1.5 years we called everyday, I felt love from him and he missed me crazy. We went to sleep and woke up together with video calls.
I felt like living in a fairytale.
In the last 6 months though, we started having problems because of the distance and time and we broke up a few times, only to reconcile and reconcile again.
For the last 2 months we’ve been stable, he messages me and calls me very often but rarely tells me he loves me.
Today, I asked him, baby you still love me, don’t you? He answered - I often hurt you and sometimes I think maybe that’s because I do love you - but I love myself more.
That’s what he said, how do I make him love me the way he loved me before? He even proposed me 1 year ago, but now, he tells me he loves himself more. I know distance changes feelings but I feel sad.
Well you shouldn't love anyone else more than yourself and he is just making it clear. Because if you don't love yourself then you don't have the love to give others too. This isn't a bad thing. It is a good thing actually :) however if you are feeling uncomfortable by him saying this again and again then talk with him and say him that you don't like it. However you shouldn't change his current self that he loves himself more. If he won't love himself then he won't have t love to give you. It is healthy mentality.