1. You are making some assumptions about what he is thinking and what is now motivating him. Your assumptions are probably based on how YOU would be thinking and feeling if you were in his position, but he does not think or feel the same way you so. His motivation may be strictly to resume a sexual relationship because he isn't doing well with his current partner and he wants to have you as a backup plan.
2. Suppose you see him and you feel something for him. In all likelihood, that is what wold happen, but. . . so what? It sounds as if you want a real relationship and that requires: mutual lust, love, trust, and respect. For it to work, you must have lust, love, trust, and respect for him and he must have lust, love, trust, and respect for you. You may feel lust for him, and perhaps even love, but do you trust him? Do you respect him? And he may feel lust for you, but does he love, trust, and respect you?
3. You tried this once before and it didn't work. You are both the same people that you were when it didn't work and if you try to reconcile, you will encounter the same problems, most likely much quicker this time. If this won't lead to a long term relationship and if that is your goal, then wouldn't this be a huge waste of your time and energy?
Most Helpful Opinions
He doesn't deserve you and him not comfortable around his family is a big red flag, your thoughts and feelings will be more messed up if you meet him again try to forget him and move on
So he lied about being in a relationship, he’s worried about his family’s opinion of you, didn’t take you on dates, you can’t trust him.. this is a stack of red flags girly, and probably only the things you can count off the top of your head. I know sometimes it can be tempting to indulge and ex but honestly I’d say move on. If you’re lonely and struggling with some issues (i. e you telling him you feel like you’re just existing), then maybe you should direct your focus to being in a healthier frame of mind, rather than reintroduce that troubling relationship. This just sounds like a guy who’s better left in the past and would very likely present the same issues that broke you up in the first place, which you don’t need if you are already having a hard time.
Move on you deserve a man who will treat you better, His not mature/isn’t honest either.
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
3Opinion
He's always had red flags, don't start forgetting why it went to shit. Move on woman.
I would not.
Move on.
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!