What's something you used to believe about relationships, but no longer do? (Page 3)
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Very true, I pick up on body language and just assumed my partner would to. Everyone is different and you definitely have to express you feeling and need to your partner.
Uhm that you meet one person and that's it then, that's your love forever, that it's immediately healthy and good and yeah... it was pretty naive
That's what I got told when I was a kid and I learned that it was bullshit when I was like 18/19 something around that.
As a kid I used to believe most people were loyal or that most relationships were healthy. The older I got the more I realized we just didn’t see as much because we were kids.
I used to believe that you need a relationship to be happy as an adult.
I believed if a guy took a girl to the school prom, after the prom you had to have sex and I was afraid to go to the prom
That if certain authority figures in your life refer you to someone for dating purposes, they know what they're talking about. That has almost never been true.
I used to believe that adults want to be in a relationship because they love you, also that when adults have problems they are able to resolve them in a mature way.
I used tp believe that having a loving honest relationship with a woman was possible. I no longer believe that thanks to feminism, metoo, and hypergamy.
I'm terribly sorry that you had to experience toxic feminity. Because it exists but it's never talked about... I'm sure you'll find a great woman that isn't problematic
@FrenchGirl2 Every woman is problematic or has the potential to be problematic. I am done with looking.
in what world/environment is that? that's defeatism mentality and not true.
Is this the result of multiple experiences with similar result?
That they are the source of happiness in life. That you need the validation of another person to make you feel whole. I stopped putting women on a pedestal... expecting them to respond in kind. If they don't like me as I am, I leave immediately (friendship not required).
That women are in it for love. The reality is they are in it for security in the forms of physical protection, labor, money, etc.
What ever you do to girl, you will gain her trust? Your still suspicious and she can call the police for smallest reason or 1 second loud talk. I still other reason too. But still believe in them these things were true.
I used to think that the whole point of having a relationship was to find somebody to make my life miserable.
I believed love could beat any problems on the way.
That good personality traits (being kind, caring & considerate) are desired over looks and arrogance.
That if you stay faithful, you'll be treated the same.
" it turns out love is not like in korean movies. "
there is a quote that I like the most
"You Only Care with Pain from People You Love!!".
--Pain Tendo (Akatsuki)--
Korean romance films really are goals 😭
I never believed that women will do ANYTHING for enough money. But it's been proven over and over. It's just a matter of negotiating how much.
That if you found the "one" the relationship would barely need effort, because everything would be smoothe sailing.
I used to believe I could lie in a relationship as long as I wasn't cheating it was alright. I know now that honesty is crucial in any relationship, especially with yourself.
Wait they wouldn't? I mean maybe not all and maybe not all the time but often..