Why does my bully cry to her boyfriend when she gets confronted about bullying?

[Anonymous]

This girl who bullies me relentlessly, and has bullied my best friend making fun of her appearance out of jealousy, and bullies other people I know, cries to her boyfriend every time she gets caught or people try to confront her about what she’s done to someone. Why doesn’t she just own up and stop being horrible to people? She always plays the victim and is like “I never said that”, and now her boyfriend thinks everyone is out to get her when his girlfriend is the one who has bullied them.

[crossdressingrihno]

Because it's easy

She is being unkind to you and your friends for whatever her reasons are I'm not going to pull off that's weak behavior they're pathetic crap because quite frankly I've seen cases where that's not the case so I'm not going to say that's what it is rather instead I will just say the reason for the boyfriend part which is it's her get out of jail free card

Her boyfriend is like the easiest escape from any backlash and trust me if people could do bad things without there being consequences a lot more people would be doing bad things

[UniquelyBasic]

A bully is most often a weak person who feels strong by bringing others down to her level.

[Asker]

Agreed, that sounds like her I think she’s insecure

[MyaMermaid]

Because she’s afraid of the consequences, Bullies often themselves have issues so they bring others down they perceive as weaker to make them feel stronger. If you’re being bullied you need to tell someone who will see past all the crying and tell her exactly how it is! Hope this helps :)

[Asker]

Thank you. This girl was my best friend so that’s why people don’t believe me. But she went out of her way to make me feel bad. I’ve told many people but some of them don’t believe me

[MyaMermaid]

In time people will see her true colours, talk to whoever you can and make sure what she realises is so incredibly wrong. She can’t just cry and get away with it. Surround yourself with other friends, ones will who support you and be open honest and serious about the way you feel. :)

[Guccigabbana18]

Sounds like she doesn’t want to face the consequences of her own actions and her boyfriend is either too gullible or just as bad as her. I’m sorry to hear you’re being bullied, stand up to her and don’t care what anyone else says.

[Asker]

Thanks, I just want her to go away but she tries to stay around me to sabotage my life

[WhitneySnow]

She’s a bitch, but since it seems to be working, I guess that’s not a bad strategy.

[Asker]

It’s really annoying she manipulates other people into taking her side when she’s bullied people

[WhitneySnow]

That does seem really annoying