I have closely trimmed it and somewhat grown out too.
How do women think of hairy men like me and what do they prefer?
Why are you even asking? I can already tell you are sensitive and will get your feelings hurt if someone tells you the dislike it and are mean about it. It's like a woman asking men if they like her cellulite riddled thighs. Some may say, "Oh sure! No one likes a bone but a dog! I love how soft that fat is!" But, we all know the truth. Everyone has "something" that they are extremely insecure about. I could be just about anything and usually, it's something that cannot be easily fixed or changed. It may be impossible to remove whatever is irking them. That's when giving up our worries to God comes into the picture. We have to remember that we are the way we are for a reason and to be at peace with ourselves. Otherwise, we will allow these things to steal our joy and to make us miserable the rest of our lives. We all must come to a place of unconditional self love, sooner or later. Hopefully, it's sooner.
That's really mature answer for a more satisfying and peaceful life and mentality. Thank You Madam ☺️☺️
But still I won't mind it at all if you may put in your personal views ad opinions on this and also give inputs of your female friends if you have any idea about them?
Opinion owner i appreciate your mature opinion.
As a woman how do you prefer such a man?
And if suppose you were such a hairy man then how would you keep yourself?
Now this picture of that chest really turns me on, and always have. It's perfect. Very masculine. I think a guy without chest hair looks like a teenager that never went through puberty. My then husband only had one hair on his chest - ONE! So I used to pull it out. And the manscaping craze actually makes a guy look like a little boy. This craze has only been around for 4 years. My, my, what did guys do before manscaping came along. And if you do manscape, keep up with it!!! The sharp stubles can really hurt a woman's soft skin. OUCH!
Grow it a little, like a nice short beard and keep it trimmed. Manscaping makes a guy look like a young boy 🙄
Thank You dear Madam ☺️😗
I appreciate your time 😽.
So you suggest keeping it trimmed as shown in the picture is best option?
@ArrowheadSW do men with normal amount of hair shave body too?
I don't know really. I have never asked any guy about it. Women tend to shave more now compared to say, a few decades ago. I do trim up a bit but I have no reason to shave my chest.
@ArrowheadSW women never complained about your hairiness?
Well, like I say, I do trim up. I just don't shave my chest. Actually I recall two former girlfriends saying they liked the look.
@ArrowheadSW you trim legs chest and everywhere else too.. close trim... no shave?
Cool dude, I think you’ll find that some women find it sexy. I was blessed 🤣 with a hairy chest too... my brother even worse.
my girlfriend likes men hairy and wishes I had even more like my brother, she thinks it’s sexy.
i used to swim competively And would shave it down, but hated the maintenance.
later on I trimmed , but now I do nothing like my brother.
Your brother is as bad as me? He has girlfriend too?
The hair in the picture is trimmed... so maybe your brother is as bad as me lol
Your girlfriend clearly is all praise for very hairy man body?
Your hair grows all over the torso too or its on some parts only?
What women like ranges from a lot of hair to none and inbetwhen it comes to: chest, arms armpits, belly/abs, legs, cock & balls, ass, back, face (mustache, soul patch, goatee, beard), head. When it comes to this do what makes you happy.
Umm. You feel women (some women) would like a lot of hair too?
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I don’t care about hair, his personality is more important.
at least it should be shaven under the belly button
@DenizLikesTennis underbelly button or pubes?
Seriously you'd totally overlook hairiness for personality although it's not what you like/find attractive?
It would not bother me one bit, as long as he is hygienic and well-groomed. I don’t find super hairy men attractive though.. not my personal preference, but I wouldn’t mind dating one as long as he keeps them short and trimmed.
The hair on the guy’s body is fine. You need not worry.
The hair jn the picture is in growth stage after being closely trimmed. It's not the natural amount..
Well, even then, if our personalities matched and I find him physically attractive, it wouldn’t matter much
You'd prefer trimmed chest hair as long as personality match. Great 👍 hopeful opinion
Oh just curious, how do you prefer on legs and thighs if they're also very hairy for a man?
yes.. facial features matter too
that does not matter one bit as long as he cleans his legs whenever he showers.
Ya i agree face matters too.
How about the legs hair? If too much there too
Haha ya everyone soaps and cleans their legs everytime they shower 🚿 haha
So on legs and thighs you'd prefer it be left fully natural even if lots?
Yes, it doesn’t matter to me
If you have it, don't touch bit! It really hurts the skin if you shave it. I've had both incredible hairy men and hairless like a baby. It doesn't matter - intelligence and character are the things that turn a woman on.
Don't even lightly or closely trim it at all... even if it's thick shag rug carpet covered full frontal torso?
Yeah, it will be soft lol the more natural the better
If naturally it is full thick shag rug dark dense fully covering the whole abdomen and chest?
The only hair I could have problem with is around the d*** cause it tickles my nose, and if he wants me to s*ck his balls then they should be hairless too - having hairs in the throat is not nice.
Otherwise it is masculine. As long as he showers I don't even like parfume or deodorant. Everyone has a natural scent and it can be incredibly sexy. There was a guy that smelled so hot I couldn't keep myself away from him and his neck...
You shouldn't be ashamed of your body whatever it is.
S you like shaved pubes and balls on men... elsewhere it's totally ok and even sexy to be very hairy?
What about a very hairy butt on men?
How about hairy back and shoulder?
Even pubes don't need to be completely gone, trimmed is fine. Everything else including butt, shoulders, back is better the way it is. In fact I don't like men with hairless hands or legs. That looks good on women, not men
The men you have been with who had really hairy body ever trimmed or shaved it... especially on the torso? Did you ever cuddle or hig with a trimmed/shaved/stubbly bodied man?
Yeah, once he did. And the hair pricked, it was unpleasant and I asked him not to do it again. It looks good on him being hairy. And it always looks good on men when it's just the way they are. Why would they bother to get rid of it?
They'd bother to get rid of it because it looks messy , furry , ugly especially compared to a woman's bare smooth soft shiny skin...
Have you ever noticed how clean angelic and bald your/a woman's skin looks next to a man's REALLY hairy body?
That makes a man feel bad beastly and insecure about his humanity
Women are supposed to be soft and delicate, men are supposed to be beastly. It is not bad, it is masculine. I wouldn't like a guy with a skin smoother than mine. Doesn't seem normal
What about a man as smooth bare skinned as yours? Lol.. if not more smooth skin
Well did tou used to touch/tun hands through or even play with hair on your very hairy guys body especially the torso hair?
If I want someone without any hair I'll get a woman.
Yeah, playing with chest hair is fun 😁 Don't you do it too? Play with your own hair?
Umm no... why would I play with my body hair especially torso hair. 😳🤨
So you touch or play just randomly while sitting or chatting with a hairy guy or just touch/lay hands only when intimate and aroused?
It's like playing with girl's hair (the one on the head) while cuddling
Lol the longer I try to explain the weirder it sounds
Do / would you also play with a man's pubes 🤨😜
If a man has hairy shoulder and back... would you like and enjoy rubbing hands through his shoulder/bck hair while hugging naked?
😂😂 wow playing with pubes is too much! I draw the line there lol
Umm and playing/rubbing hands through his shoulder/back and neck hair while cuddle?
There is always someone out there who will love you for who you are and that's the type of person you want to be dating.
Always expect better from the universe and don't settle for anyone who doesn't love you the way you want to be loved.
Ok great 😊
As a woman what's your preference
You should vote too
It's all a matter of carrying what you have or what you prefer with "confidence"... Some men can rock chest hair and look very sexy with it... just like some men rock a beard and some men rock a clean shaven look and some men rock long or short hair... If you dont "advertise" it as an "insecurity" and advertise it like a choice of "Aesthetics",... you will rock the look... There are many men in the show business who rock a hairy chest and convert women who previously didn't like hairy chests into finding it sexy... Whatever you choose to sport... sport it with confidence... don't devalue yourself and others won't devalue you.
True.
You said " There are many men in the show business who rock a hairy chest and convert women who previously didn't like hairy chests into finding it sexy..."
But i have not seen any man in modelling or films or show biz having hairy chest... and how come a woman who used to hate hairy would start liking it then?
@RosalinaH do u prefer hairy or non hairy guys urself?
@MarkyMark77 I've liked men on both sides of the spectrum... The same man can also look good in both... It's a matter of stylistic choices... It's like asking whether you like straight hair or wavy hair... whether you like blondes or brunettes... The same man can like both styles on women... similarly women can also like both looks.
Basically you are not fussy about male body hair? You can enjoy or like it when he shaves it all including his legs and you are ok and can enjoy it if he keeps it all natural even if it's too much hair?
I have more hair on my chest and abs than you do, and I have had no problem getting laid. It's more about being confident, but I'm also a bodybuilder, so I do go fully shaven regularly too. Girls think I'm sexy no matter how much hair I have. ✌😁 I will say that my body hair grows into full visible stubble after two days, so I have to shave 2-3 times a week to stay smooth, so most of the time I keep the hair just because the maintenance is so much.
Are the girls ok and even like it when it's full visible chest and abdomen stubble?
It depends much more on your personality than your hairy chest. It depends totally on the man and the impression he makes as a mensch. You can look like every girl's dream but if you're a vain conceited jerk, you're chances certainly will be lessened.
Charm, good humor and a respectful while confident attitude matter more. Unless, of course, I'm definitely already planning on absolutely never ever seeing you again.
@Gigi2019 what's excellent hygiene for you? You feel very hairy men need more care since otherwise they're easily unhygienic?
What do you think?
Consider this...
You have two male friends. One friend is as hairy as you claim to be. One fried is as hairless as a professional swimmer.
Your two friends are doing you a solid and helping you out with yard work on your homestead. You are not near any running water. The project is to fell and to shave trees. They have collectively agreed to process 20 trees for you using ancient hand tools (axes, etc). This lumber will be used for your log cabin.
You cannot provide a shower setup for them at your remote compound until the third day. Your two, enthusiastic friends are slaving away for you in the oppressive heat of the dog days of summer because they want to "get 'er done" and to quickly finish their portion of the manual labor.
When they are done with their work and all of their sweaty, extensive labors, they are just rinsing the sweat off of themselves with a 16 ounce bottle of water and toweling off. They are not using any soap.
Question:
Which friend do you think would smell worse after these two days have ended? Your really hairy friend or your hairless friend?
@Gigi2019 okay I agree. Haha. 👍 Yeah
it'd bother me tbh, but everyone has their own preferences though and i don't think most people would care that much
Thank You. You are very young 🌱
When I was a kid, having a hairy chest was a sign of virility. I was glad when I started to get some hair. Now I see people shaving it off.
Have you started shaving your body too now?
Have you ever tried talking about shaving it off with your wife?
In my idea, many other things are important
Don’t focus on your hairy chest. Try to grow good human characteristics in yourself
A pure, kind and innocent heart can penetrate to every human being
Nice. Quite philosophical and mature.
But sometimes some women don't even want to know a man as a person and see his heart.. if they notice he's really hairy bodied man.
No?
If you were a very hairy man then what would you do about it /yourself?
I myself don’t dislike a hairy man
I can’t say appearance isn’t important to me
Height, weight, looking, … are important
If a man is tall, not obese with a fairy good looking, I’ll not notice his hairy body
You can remove your hair and your partner can want it from you if she wants
It’s not something like when some one is short can do nothing with it
But the problem is even if a very hairy man removes it , it's very temporary and even then it doesn't feel and look that soft and smooth as it is for women or men who are naturally lacking coarse body hair
So you like tall fit men. How tall? What's your own height lol
You can do laser treatments if it’s such important to you
Yes, I like tall men
I’m 5,6
Don't mind , but if I clearly ask you... if you like a man otherwise..
Would you like it more ( to touch/hug/loom at) a man who has shaven it all including his legs because they're also quite coarsely hairy.. or let it be all natural.. clean hygeinic hairy body?
I actually don’t like men who does this kind of things like body hair removal, cosmetic surgery on nose …, get Botox….
It’s my idea and There are many women who likes the all mentioned
So you only like shaven private groin area and buttock on men , rest prefer all natural.. even if it's lot of hair and even natural hairy shoulder/side of back?
Did you vote on poll
I like a little hair on the chest! I think it's sexy
And the hair growth pattern as jn the picture is not " Little" hair. What say about such hair growth pattern all over the front torso?
( The amount of hair in picture above has been trimmed, it's not the natural amount)
I like it trimmed
Trimmed as much in the picture although it's growing all over the torso.. it's covering a huge area... 😏
Yes like the picture
How do you prefer on the legs and thighs of a man when it's lot?
With hair I don't care about the legs
Regarding the invite, check here and see if something in there is not working right for you:
https://www.girlsaskguys.com/faq/features#204
I went to a water park when the shaved chest look was in. I was one of few men with a hairy chest there. Judging from the attention I got from women there, I don’t think it’s a problem.
Was it a positive attention and looks or scary/negative/dislike/creepy look and attention?
Umm like what kind of " attention" did they give?
Wow. Seriously? Were you with group of friends or with a girl?
Back when was this and how old were these women?
And i am curious how hairy is your chest and abdomen?
They came up to you on their own to talk and out of nowhere said that they like hair?
Many women there noticed or were looking at/gawking / staring at your chest?
While only few came upto you to talk and even said they like hair and it's rare these days?
The others who were just staring/looking at were enjoying it /liking it too or were sort of creeped out / seemed repulsed byor were making fun of it among themselves?
Lol no you misunderstood. I am just curious... and want to know how can someone know if a girl is liking what she's seeing or if she's creeping
Have you always been comfortable and confident with having hairy body especially hairy chest?
And how about women who were intimate with you? They al loved it too?
Means the women you were intimate with never said anything positive or negative about hairy chest? They did touch/rubbed it with their hands ad fingers though during intimacy?
And the women at water park were the young women who are used to smooth shaved men?
You've got full hairy abdomen too?
Anything on shoulder?
Haven't you ever shaved or trimmed it?
Never felt curious or motivated to see how it looks.
And you never felt odd and very insecure about hairy skin compared next to a woman's skin?
Keep it if you like them!!! But if you don't, a laser hair removal will help.
As a young female how do you think about hairy males?
That chest on the photo is absolutely fine, nothing wrong with it.
Hairy back is more of a repellent. That I would have it waxed
Everyone has different preferences but I don't mind and even like body hair on men. As long as you are groomed and hygienic, I like it.
Groomed as in trimmed as in picture or shaven?
no not even shaved or trimmed, just someone who puts care into their hygiene and appearance.
So you just mean hygienic as in washed cleaned tried and scented?
My hair gets quite long and dense when left to grow natural so dense that it looks like am wearing shag carpet. You'd like /won't mind such natural on your man?
My husband is a harry dude, and I like it, as long as he showers. lol
Is he / has he ever been insecure about it or felt bad for having hairy chest?
You won't even mind if it's shag rug hairy chest and abdomen... so dense that it almost hides the skin and looks all darkish because of hair growth?
Im sure when he was younger but I like his hair
Have you ever had " hairy talk" with him to know how he feels about himself and how has his experience been with girls before you?
Yes.
And what has his answer and experience been before you?
One of his girlfriends liked it when he shaved his chest back in high school, but he was never really insecure about it. He didn't start getting really hairy until college and at that point he was secure enough in his body and about his masculinity it never bothered him. I think the biggest issue he has with his hair now is that he has started getting some greys lol but I like them
Women love hairy chests. Typically women date men not prepubescent boys.
If women liked hairy chest and body then why would waxing/shaving be a trend amongst men these days?
Its not. Only gays do that stuff.
You know any man who has hairy chest and doesn't shave... and women like it/him?
Me. Most guys dont have very hairy chest but wish they did. Girls always feel on my chest in the summer.
How much hairy chest do you have?
Girls always feel your chest hair in summers? 😂🤔 What girls? Gfs?
Im hairy asf. And just lots of girls. Im a bit of a playboy.
Hairy af as the guy in the picture?
But why would random woman come up to touch hairy chest of a man?
Because its attractive? And not just walk up and touch. Like if i start flirting with a girl at the pool or beach. Smh.
Your chest is as hairy as pic?
Have you noticed girls look at / notice your shirtless chest hair too or they don't?
Hairier than pic. Dont know if they look at my chest or chest hair. I assume both since one can't look at one without the other. Never ever had a concern women didn't like it so I've never bothered to think anything about it.
My boyfriend has a hairy chest and I love it 🥰
How hairy is his.
And you like it since you love him anyway or you like hair in general as well?
Vote on poll
I’ve always liked beard and smooth hairy chest.
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He sorta looks like this ☝🏻 ☺️
That's not all over the chest and abdomen.. as it is for me :/
I hope not I have hair on my chest not black though
You are older than me , how has your experience been with wome till now?
You got chest hair at 40 age?
I LOVE hairy men
That's a mega plus for me :)
Oookay. Nice to know. Even such heavy hairy whole front torso?
Are you the odd one out in your group of female friends or do some other girls around you like it or don't mind it?
What's their definition of really hairy?
And do they mostly like shaved men even on the legs?
You from which country
there's loads of women that prefer that.
You assuming or guessing or you know that from personal experience?
I know from personal experience.
You hairy too?
Yeah. And i personally do not prefer it. I prefer to keep the hair away. Most girls asked me to let the hair stay, cause they like it better.
You've got lot of hair al over the torso too or its some hair on some parts of torso only?
Most of the torso.
So yoh dislike it and shave it. But the women who were with you didn't liked the shaved look or didn't like the shaved stubbly feeling?
What did they say about growing out hair
They associated body hair with "a mature man" and that's what they were most attracted to as they said.
So initially you kept yourself shaved but when they saw you shirtless they said they prefer hairy male?
And did you stop shaving and grow it out fully natural then?
How many women said this?
some i asked if i should shave, cause i was considering it. they said no. with some i was shaved to begin with and they asked to let it grow.
Basically every woman /girl you were in relationship with liked hairy natural and disliked shaven or trimmed. You lucky lol.
So you listened to them and stopped hair removal?
Did anyone of them playfully deliberately touched /ran fingers or hands through it and commented anything about it?
Touching, stroking, yeah. Commenting no.
Oooooh. Did anyone touched/stroked or played with leg and thighs hair too?
dude i don't think girls have to be hair fetishists to prefer hair.
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