Physical appearance is not the only thing I like about her. She is kind and caring, she is low maintenance (doesn't have to have the latest fashions or go to expensive places often), he is hard working, and she has one or two interests in common with me.
She has let herself go a bit, while I never stopped wanting to improve my physical strength through working out. Sometimes I find myself looking at women who are slim and toned. But I don't want to cheat, those women may not have the same qualities my wife has (those qualities made me marry her)
But how do I tell her to lose the weight and get more healthy without coming off as shallow and/or hurting her feelings?
She has let herself go a bit, while I never stopped wanting to improve my physical strength through working out. Sometimes I find myself looking at women who are slim and toned. But I don't want to cheat, those women may not have the same qualities my wife has (those qualities made me marry her)
But how do I tell her to lose the weight and get more healthy without coming off as shallow and/or hurting her feelings?
