I am furious with my boyfriend. Many times have I told him how leaving me on read hurts as he is ignoring me. We had a very serious talk about this and said he would change. Then today I was opening up about SA to family, and he knew this. We both agreed that the way I was going about it wasn't the best way, but it was organised by another family member. Long story short, we agreed to call, he he then left me on read, I messaged saying I was able to call, he said, "it's up to you", I was already in tears from struggling so that pushed me away, he then said to call him, but I couldn't anymore. Anyways, he messages me back saying he understands. Before I could responded, he deletes it and leaves me on read. So it wasn't like it was an accident, he chose to leave me on read when he knows how badly it hurts. Then he was active multiple times after. Then when I finally opened up to the family about my SA, I went to go and message him an apologise for pushing him away, but then noticed he followed an explicit account that promotes her OnlyFans. I was shaking with anger. He chose to ignore me, and in such hard moments, he went to go and seek other women. I am extremely hurt. I have no idea if he subscribes to her OnlyFans. I have no idea if he messaged her. I feel like I don't know him anymore. I am so hurt. I held back from messaging him for two hours because I was furious. I messaged him a really long message explaining what he had done and how it hurt me. I know he is going to turn it back on me once he sees it. I don't think I will be able to move forward with this. Not after the multiple times I've told him how I felt about things He used to always bring up other women in arguments. When I told him how it was wrong and how I turn down other men in the relationship, he said it's not the same because men use women. So if that's how he thinks, what does it mean about the girl with the OnlyFans? I can't trust anything he says anymore.
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We are done. I hoped he would realise the pain he caused me. He couldn't even admit it. I honestly had a lot of belief in him, but he couldn't even be there for me in the time I needed him most. I deserve better.
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You deserve better. He wasn’t giving you the care, nurture, and consideration you needed. Honestly, by the way he was handling things, it sounded dysfunctional and toxic. I wish you the best with healing from this and I hope you can get the emotional support you need. You didn’t deserve to be mistreated like that.
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What are u asking tho as u told him somthing he does hurts u and he has done it again so now u have decided what you are going to do
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he's a narcissist he'll never care about your feelings will always make it your fault everything will always be about him. Be happy he's gone do not let him back in your life narcissists suck your life energy out of you. Trust me I know
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