Am I wrong for wanting him to end his relationship with his female best friend? (Page 2)

[exitseven]

I think he spends too much time with her. He needs to pay more attention to you. Making him end the friendship will only cause resentment. Maybe explain your feelings and tell him that what he is doing isn't cool.

[bayoubob]

Duh. End your relationship with him. If he wants her that bad he may just be looking for 3 some crap. When she is that bold, to show up in your den and not care about anything, obviously you don't want her poon, so what is the hang up here?

[Rockstarrrrr]

Lol no you're not wrong.. You're a third wheel nobody is okay with that.. how did you put up with all that until now I don't know..

[InsertNameHerex]

It’s a red flag. I’ve been with a dude who had a female best friend, he said he saw her as a sister and would never date her. Guess what? They’re together now lolll now of course every case is different but I don't know trust your gut

[Flower7]

This is definitely a problem. Either she goes or you go…that’s what I feel should happen. He shouldn’t have two women.

[Jaguarsxr051]

Do you have make followers on Instagram or Snapchat? If yes then delete your Snapchat and IG account first then you have all the right to ask him other wise it's unfair. in my opinion I see this relationship going into a Storm just my opinion

[SmokyOne]

Ask him to end his friendship and he will resent you the rest of the relationship.. no matter how long (or short it is)

You can talk to him about all this but either way when he tells her they're both gonna see you as jealous and insecure.

[Drumlin2001]

To me, it sounds like you're being a little over the top and jealous. If you want him to spend more time with you then talk to him about it. Don't expect him to give up a good friendship.

[spartan55]

Some of the shit you are freaking about is pretty ridiculous tbh. However, there's definitely enough other things for it to be a problem.

[Gent207]

If even half of this true please explain why you are still with this POS?

[Guy13]

No…. He’s got to choose at some point. Wife and Life or go screw your friend rest of your lif.

[Lycanthropic]

The fact he texted her during your birthday would be enough of a red flag for me. Just dump him and move on. But, be graceful. Don't tell him the real reason. Just explain it isn't working out.

[driven159]

BIG RED FLAGS WAVING !!! they are blocking out the sun

[GreatnessBack]

After reading the whole thing, you two need to sit down and have a talk.
Tell him that you would like some more time for the two of you. Don't even mention the friend, focus on the two of you.

[jahaims]

If the only thing stoping someone from cheating is you intervening then they are still a cheater. So if you can't trust someone don't be with them.

[Anonymous]

hate to break it to you but you're the side chick. break up. this is unacceptable.

[RuthlessAggression]

Just proves guys and girls can't be "just friends"

AND y'all KNOW IT

[Avadarling]

No, it’s reasonable for you to feel that way lill hun

[In_Trance]

You're wrong for thinking you can change him.

[Anon481]

He is allowed to have friends, you should never tell him to get rid if them unless they're a criminal or some shi