Is it your fault for choosing to be with a terrible partner? (Page 3)

[CallmeTheKnight]

It is absolutely your fault. Even if they shown their true colors further down the road, you still chose to stay with that person. It takes two to tango

[DizzyDesii]

Its only our fault if we stay after realizing the shit is toxic

[Pinay_ako]

You deserve what you tolerate

[GreenEyesBrownHair]

So true.. I actually needed to hear that since I'm in this situation. Thanks ❤

[Pinay_ako]

@GreenEyesBrownHair I keep telling myself this…

[Quigly]

Nope, Many people put on a show of good behavior until they know the other person is in a position that isn't so easy to reverse. like marriage or a living arrangement.

Then suddenly, they start to show their ass.
It's intentional.

[Alwayreckles93]

No it's not because I was once with a narcissist and he changed threw out the years.

[SkyCastle90]

Yes. Every relationship is a choice; if not, call the police.

[Anonymous]

Most people don't choose to fall in love with an asshole because they don't know their full personality at the time. But once they do know they are an asshole but still choose to stay with them, yeah it's their fault.

[Apulu_Imback]

If they still stay with that person then yes it is their fault.

[rachel776]

after a point it's your fault for staying with them

[Bratsondanielle]

If you choose to stay with some dumbass then yes it's your fault

[Chazmatazz269]

You have accountability in the matter, but “fault” might not be the appropriate term.

[TonyV]

Uh yeah kind of your fault, sure some bad people can hide stuff along time but really. it sounds like you got serious before you even got to know them.

[Anonymous]

Typically yes. Very few people are jekyll and Hyde. Most people showed you who they were. You just missed all the red flags because you were too in your feelings.
This is why the same people tend to repeat the same mistakes. They don't learn!

[driven159]

no one's fault that is why you get to know someone before you put your heart on the line people try to show their good side to someone it takes time to know the real person

[melanieeeB]

I think it's more a bad decision to stay, after finding out about their toxic traits or whatever bad there is

[Smashingdoozy]

This is basically victim blaming.

The signs aren't always easy to tell. It's nobody's fault but the person being like that.

[SiberFox]

You have to vet the other person before commiting to a relationship.

[PamelaRivers]

It's not your fault for falling for a toxic person. It is only your fault if you give in and remain with them when you can see they are toxic.

[DizzyAster2]

It's not your fault if you choose them, but is your fault if you stay.

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes; it's your fault.

Be VIGILANT, people!
Date with your eyes OPEN.