Do you feel uncomfortable if/ when people like you too quickly without really knowing you? (Page 2)

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I’m not really thinking if it from the Angie they are fakers. Let’s assume for arguments sake, they believe they are really into you. So for me it’s just too arbitrary. I don't know why you like me so I would have no idea what it is you believe I am and I have no way of knowing if there’s anything at all substantial between us. Leaving out the sign if impulsivity of that person as well, my concern I think Stems from the ambiguity of the situation. I’m uncomfortable when I have no way of assessing an event I’m involved in including relations. Anyone else?  Remember I’m not asking g about “ their potential pathology” just in how it might make you personally feel uneasy in your own life.  Some people just attach quick and have a solid idea if who they are and just bc they like eoneobe readily it doesn’t mean they are bonkers plus it’s hypothetical it’d just be conjecture but what we all do know is how we personally feel about how stuff affects us—-so I’m not really asking about their supposed side of the equation but yours 😊

Anonymous · Answer

Yes and it’s usually a red flag and a sign of being controlling by trying to pin someone down into a relationship. They are usually also very insecure in general.

Anonymous · Answer

I kind of wish I had this problem actually lol. Nobody seems to like me.

the_sinner · Answer

Mostly yes. I know myself and I’m sure that anyone cannot like me too quickly. So when someone does that I’m surely they’re just rushing.

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

If that ever happened, I’d think “that’s dangerous and stupid. Thank God it’s me”

Deku2009 · Answer

Yeah 100 I want to get to know her first before thinking of dating her

sheikalana · Answer

This is actually a red flag to me.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Definitely. I have a knack for attracting psychos.

TallAnon · Answer

Yeah, like "What do you want from me?"

KatherineJ · Answer

Yep, that always made me feel weirded out.

Wise4myage · Answer

No, not really.

KostasKouvalis · Answer

Romantically, yes Plutonically, no

driven159 · Answer

If they like me too fast means they want something

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