Girls, In my last relationship I was used for sex. How do I know if I can trust a man?

[Anonymous]

My new boyfriend and I have been together for three weeks. He fixed my sink, changed the oil in my car, and installed a shelf for me. The last time we saw each other, he lifted up my sleeves so my arms were exposed. Another time, we were looking at a movie and he lifted my shirt and started kissing my belly and I went to the bathroom. I don't know if he expects sex from me for doing those things, how do I talk to him about this?

[Bee-Hatch]

There's this thing people have to do, it's like a leap of faith. You don't know how things will work out, but if you never try, you'll never date or have sex again.

[Asker]

So when should I allow him to touch my back or my belly?

[Bee-Hatch]

Touching your back or belly isn't having sex. If you don't feel comfortable being touched there, then maybe best to end things. But if it's something you'd like then just go with it. 3 weeks isn't unreasonable in terms of time

[kylee2437]

Sounds like he’s a trustworthy man for being with you for sometime without voicing for sex