My boyfriend gave me an F?

[Gloree]

I'm IT personnel but My office sent us on training at the management firm he works at to learn some management skills.

Fortunately he was one of the facilitators. I didn't pay much attention during his class as I expected him to pass me.

First, he humiliated me and my friend for conversing in his class by sending us out for a while.

Then finally he scored me F and now I've missed the cash reward for that program.

He could have manipulated the scores but chose to make me fail. And he refuses to apologize.

Does this mean he does not love me as I thought?

Updates

1 y

You are all blaming me. Imaging your man addressing you sternly in public like "The both of you,
Please step out of my class now." I've never been so humiliated. Even my friend asked if am sure we were still dating.

As for the scores, he could have given me an E, not F like I was completely dumb.

Updates

1 y

Guys I have accepted my flaws. I'm taking some time out to evaluate myself. Thanks.

[DaveJord]

Sound like to my you disrespected him in his own class. That he was there as a professional and you came in there looking for favoritism in a very unprofessional way. I mean its not everyone else there doesn't know your dating him, so you come in and don't take it seriously and are disruptive, while everyone else is expected to be professional and participate in a productive way.

If anything you owe him and apology for disrespecting him with your unprofessional behavior. I would be less concern about me not loving you as mush as I would be about you not giving me the equal respect that you would expect of him. It doesn't sound like you love him all that much and if you did you would apologize.

[DaveJord]

Honestly as a man you got to be very aware of equal opportunity and fairness in the work place, especially if he is a white guy. Anyone for any reason at any time can drop a race or sexual harassment compliant on you. So you got to stay professional at all times, especially if you work for a big corporation.

I worked in Amazon and you have no idea who could of been in that class, and if you're embarrassing him or disrupting his class he has to take a hard line stance against it because it could effect future opportunities for him. If he did nothing nobody would think less of you, but his professionalism could be called into question. Obviously you did something that nobody else in the class was doing... so dating him or not it should not be part of your thinking in the work place. You should stayed professional and acted like an adult instead of a highschool kid. He only reacted to you, so you have to take responsibility for your own actions.

[DaveJord]

Don't be too hard on yourself, relationships are tough, and work place relationships are especially tough. I mean there work Dave and home Dave... they at times are two different people. Because way act home you obviously can do on the work place and still maintain a level of professionalism. So when you date some one that you work with its like those two worlds collid.

Which is why I never date anyone from work. Personally, but don't be too hard on yourself. I mean maybe the guy over reacted a little... but still it sounded like on uncompromising situation.

I am Dave I was using my name as an example

[Gloree]

Aww. Thanks Dave. Yeah noticed your name. You've been very helpful.

[Bmories99]

No he still loves you. He is trying to show how important to him the training is and he is trying to set an example for his company also by showing that he can handle a situation where there is a potential COI.

[Gloree]

Hmn. What is COI please?

[Bmories99]

Conflict of interest

[Bmories99]

I am glad to hear you Re evaluating this. When I mess up or things don't go the way I think they should I always try to look at things from the other person's prospective. In this situation yes your boy friend could have given you an A and let you talk and disrupt his class or training session. How would he look in his jobs eyes and what if he had to justify the scores he gave. Again nothing he did was in spite or was to hurt you. He was just doing his job.

[OlderAndWiser]

WHAT would make you think that this guy either loved (extremely unlikely) or lusted (more plausible, but not in this case) for you?

[Gloree]

He didn't support me. He was too strict.

[OlderAndWiser]

Maybe he just thought you were a slacker.

[caring__1]

I'm confused. How is it he chose to make you fail, when it was your own inattentiveness that led to your grade? You assume he should have passed you, no matter what you did. Don't you think that would put his job in jeopardy? It's time to grow up , be responsible and be accountable for your own choices. It's easy to lay blame (he humiliated me for disrupting his class and talking to my friend), but where do you expect blame, accusations and criticism to take you. You chose to fail. Accept responsibility for your choice, and learn from your experience.

[bayoubob]

Are you being mental? Everyone loves a good Impractical Jokers episode where the loser must pay. Sal, one time, had to go to a public pool with a LifeGuard tshirt, nose plastered with sunblock and tell kids that weren't doing nothing, to sit out for 5 minutes do to bullying. A parent tells Sal, "I'm the parent of that kid." "He did nothing." "He had permission to eff around and toss other kids." Eventually, the rest of the boys told Sal he had to empty the pool. And he did it. Everyone vacated the pool due to "bullying." He endured it. Sal was not happy, he fucked everyone's day over. But can you imagine the laughter he brought, when all involved knew they were part of Impractical Jokers?

[Gloree]

You think I don't know you are laughing at me with this story of yours? I don't blame u

[bayoubob]

Most jackasses are calling you the culprit. I don't do that. We need to see the evidence all around. If you are that much entwined, lose his ass quick. His torment can go do other unsuspecting women, but it's nothing off the skin of your back. Get the fuck out.

[bayoubob]

See Evil where you see it. If he manipulates that bad? And you are being serious as in Grave Yard dead serious? What is keeping you there?

[IAteTwoFullHams]

Sounds like he takes his job seriously and refuses to play favorites.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like your embarrassed yourself by being unprofessional and uncommitted. And if it weren't enough that he had to deal with you in his professional job, you then assumed he would be unprofessional and biased in giving you a grade you did not deserve.

I'd be extremely disappointed in you. It's his job. You pissed on it. And because you're his partner, your poor behaviour reflects on him.

[AviatorTom]

You tried to take advantage of him by goofing off during training, and you deserved what you got. Your relationship has nothing to do with this. He acted professionally and you didn't.

[AviatorTom]

@Gloree Re: your update, your comment points out something that I have observed over the years. In general, women have problems separating business from personal, while men, in general, do that on a regular basis.

[exitseven]

No, you thought you would be teachers pet but your boyfriend showed real. integrity by giving you the grade you really deserved.

[OnTheLevel]

You are the problem, not him. He at least has some integrity.

[Gloree]

U don't understand how humiliated I feel especially when I look at that grade in his handwriting. My heart is breaking. It's not fair. You're not fair either

[OnTheLevel]

You are the one who took advantage of him. You put him in the awkward position by disrupting his class and expecting special treatment. Don't blame him for being humiliated. You brought the humiliation on yourself.

[Anpu23]

No, it means that you don't reapect him. This was a professional setting and he had a responsibility to the company. You took advantage of that and him. And that was unacceptable

[20yearsolder]

Imagine you not trying to take advantage of your boyfriend. You should have paid attention and done your job.

[EmmaMary]

Congratulations on winning a Troll of the day award.

[NathanDavis]

I give this post double FF...

for Fake but still Funny... lol

[Gloree]

Wow.

[legalboxers]

-blinks-

[Gloree]

Rolls eyes

[legalboxers]

@Gloree are you HR? Mid Lower Management? How can you get an F? I know he's your man but if he passed you - and you were joking around - what example does that set for everyone?

[NathanDavis]

nobody can be this vapid and childish... lol

it's a made up scenario

[Andres77]

I’ll bet he leaves the toilet seat up tonight too!

[Bklynbadboy12]

Your boyfriend is the worst boyfriend in the world he couldn't even leave supportive of you so you can get your money what an idiot he is and if I was you I'd move on I wouldn't even date him anymore

[msc545]

Why should he cheat and manipulate scores for you? Just because you have sex with him?

[msc545]

This is a great example of female entitlement. I hope this guy dumps you.

[DCooper]

Bingo

[007kingifrit]

no it doesn't mean he doesn't love you, it does mean he's a rule bound putz and a jerk who doesn't have his priorities in order

[maximumpower]

You can't tell?
Oh, you poor thing.

[Jouth]

F's in the chat.

RIP GPA lol

[Gloree]

Rolls eyes

[Jouth]

Takes class again and actually pays attention.

You're pissed off at him for doing his job? Do you have any idea how much trouble he could get into for changing his girlfriend's grade for the better?

You don't even realize how entitled you are.

So understand this. You are entitled to nothing. Be an adult and work for what you have instead of expecting it to be handed to you by your boyfriend.

Holy shit, I'd hate to be you.

[legalboxers]

-blinks- wut?