Is it okay to pay for your coworker’s food when in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

Went out to eat for lunch with my coworker at canes and paid for both of us. Is that okay or is that cheating? Girlfriend saw my post on my story and started asking all sorts of questions and told me it was cheating since I paid for her food but I was just being nice.

No, that is cheating.

That is okay.

[Anonymous]

Why don’t you ask your partner 😂 I bet she won’t like it. The reason you even ask this is because you know it’s wrong. Now picture your girl doing that for a guy. Nope I definitely wouldn’t like it. Follow your gut feelings. They are saying it’s wrong. It’s obviously not cheating but it’s disrespectful to your partner. Unless you have a motive to get some kind of business deal or benefits. Don’t spend money on other girls unless it’s your girlfriends mom or family members.

[landingout2]

at this point relationships
are fake

no point in dating

[ElementoP]

My girl and her coworker go to lunch all the time. He pays, she sucks his dick in the bathroom and they go back to work

Not a big deal

[jennifer_bloom]

It’s not cheating but it’s cruel cause she will probably assume you cheated and that would hurt her feelings.

[OlderAndWiser]

What was your motive for paying for your co-worker's meal? That is something I only do if I am dating, or my lunch companion is my mother.

[Anonymous]

YES! NOOOOOO dude. Don't listen to these people. GIVER'S GAIN!!! Everybody gets it all backwards like with everything else is the world (which is why the world is shi*)
You are a light in the world. You freely gave without excepting anything in return... That is what it is all about brother. Don't let anyone fool you into thinking you cheated or you are less of a man. Now if you're girlfriend doesn't understand that then teach her. And by the way if she doesn't trust you then you guys are doing your relationship wrong... IT SHOULD NOT BE THAT WEAK.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

It's not cheating. It's fuckin' lunch.

But that said, your partner might have different boundaries. It's worth talking to her and figuring out what those are.

But honestly you should be able to buy food for your coworkers or friends - it isn't sex. It's... It's lunch. There's nothing unfaithful about that.

[Missgingles]

It depends. Is she broke to the point she can't afford to eat out? Its kinda weird if she isn't broke. But as long as you make it clear to her that you are in a relationship that you will stay loyal to its fine.

Why were you out alone with her?

[DizzyDesii]

Its sus. This random hoe at the gas station used to give him everything free. He swore she was just nice but i was right in the end... she wanted him. Man that Canes texas toast and tee is sooo good tho. Them strips is nasty tho

[nawtee_me]

@DizzyDesii you know you are so sexy when you talk about Texas Toast…. lol

[DizzyDesii]

@nawtee_me 😂😂😂

[nawtee_me]

I guess it is true that a way to a mans heart is through his stomach... come on, talk food to me... lol

[MmmDaddy]

Okay so I get it was trying to be nice and being nice is okay.. but when it comes to buying their things for them it can be looked at as cheating.. the have no attachment to you like she does so it is rude to her.. you are giving this other lady attention your girlfriend believes that she deserves.. not your coworker... it's a gesture that can be taken as " I really like you" .. even if it not meant like that keep your attention on your woman

[jshm2]

WTF is your girl all insecure about?

Also, don't make it a habit to pay for your coworkers. Else they will become entitled and expect it of you all the time.

[HelloImGoodThanks]

It's not cheating but those hot chips look yum man now I'm craving crinkle cut chips

[Blackcosmo]

That's totally fine. It's not cheating since it wasn't sexual at all. You were only being nice

[Sarahr123]

If you’re committed then you don’t do that because who’s this coworker let them pay their own bill mate

[Autember]

No paying for someone's food is NOT cheating. Neither is going out for lunch together. The intention is what matters.

[BlueScorpio]

Oh that's fine, coworkers do it all the time at my job.

[Apulu_Imback]

So, she would have stated you gay if you paid for your male co-worker?

Interesting

[QuietVerbena]

That’s not cheating. You were just being nice, same as you would be to a male coworker.

[Guy13]

yes and it is mostly expected that you fee your B-tch ;-) IF YOU WANT TO GET FED...

[Iron_Man]

It’s not a good idea at all to even eat lunch with her alone and you certainly shouldn’t be paying for her that’s like boyfriend and girlfriend stuff

[RavVid]

Not cheating at all. I imagine she thinks you fancy the co-worker.

[ProudWoman]

It is not cheating, unless you agreed with your girl not to pay for others.

[Barry88]

I honestly don't see any issue with this. It's just being nice.